Greetings Norman, great to have you here. As I mentioned in one of my "journal entries", the great thing about this forum, is that we're only identified by our addiction. Aside that, we're completely anonymous. Except UKguy, we know he's from the UK...now it's to narrow it down out of the 68 million they have there, then narrowing it down to the men above 40...so he's one in about 25 million. So yea, anonymous.
Now back to this forum, we all have different backgrounds. Myself, reformed baptist (brought up Catholic like most in my area). I do see my faith as a huge help, But not everyone has the same path to recovery.
The only part we can say for now, is post often. Use this as a diary / journal. And since you're new to the board and the reboot, try to post daily, no matter how mundane or "useless" you think it will be, just the fact that you're posting here, will be a reminder of what you're fighting for and fighting against. I have seen some people just put "day 14, nothing new to report"...but just posting that, is a reminder of what you're trying to fight.
The other part is, at the start of the battle, I found the first 30 days easy. Mostly due to the guilt, and the fear of falling again. My guard was very, very high. If you read through my first few posts, I didn't even watch modern cartoons. I found the women were way too endowed and I would then search them out online. So, I basically cut off all internet and movies except my bible studies and quick Facebook browsing.
As far as being brutally honest with your wife, now that she knows, I would ask her, how much details she wants to hear. If she says she wants to hear it all, then oblige. Otherwise, she might just want to hear about your struggles, she might just want to hear about your victories.
I know for myself, if my wife confessed an addiction, I wouldn't want each replay...I would want a progress report, but once a week or once a month would be fine, providing there's progress and effort.
Either way, I have rambled enough, looking forward to reading the journal.