One of the most common mistakes rebooters make in my opinion is they focus too much on NOT WATCHING PORN and just sitting around waiting to turn into superman/superwomen, even if they have little to no real life sexual experiences. I think many rebooters, especially those who grew up with internet porn, may need to "rewire" their arousal template in their brain to a real life partner. I made a video discussing this with some advice that has helped me, and I believe can help anyone going through recovery with a partner.
https://youtu.be/D1nZmYBa5-s
Hope y'all find it helpful. Much love
https://youtu.be/D1nZmYBa5-s
Hope y'all find it helpful. Much love