Hello I hope you are all doing well. I have found this site after searching through google countless times to see what is wrong with me. I am 16 and i started watching porn around the age of 12. Last year, my ex girlfriend and I were ready to have sex when something horrible happened. After making out for a while, we took our clothes off and we were going to do it. (side note, I have not been able to keep an erection with her regularly but at the time it didn't seem to matter). I quickly realized i was not hard enough for sex. I tried and tried. I tried kissing for longer, pre hand jobs and blowjobs but nothing worked. (she is beautiful and the problem was definitely not her). We tried to have sex about three other different times later in the month but i was never hard enough.
I still am having trouble getting aroused and im scared to go farther with another girl, only to get embarrassed again. I really need help, and as of right now, I am only one week with out porn and im scared nothing is going to work.
I used to watch porn around 3 times a day for an entire year so I'm thinking that is the problem. I'm really trying everything and I really don't see me being able to be horny again.
Does anyone with the same type of experience gone through this and succeeded? This would really help if yes. Thank you for your time. Hopefully after 1 year of searching ive found the right thing to do.
I still am having trouble getting aroused and im scared to go farther with another girl, only to get embarrassed again. I really need help, and as of right now, I am only one week with out porn and im scared nothing is going to work.
I used to watch porn around 3 times a day for an entire year so I'm thinking that is the problem. I'm really trying everything and I really don't see me being able to be horny again.
Does anyone with the same type of experience gone through this and succeeded? This would really help if yes. Thank you for your time. Hopefully after 1 year of searching ive found the right thing to do.