These journals are really a great way to post things that are all about us, but with the benefit of getting some feedback from others. Where else can you talk about these things? I'm a guitarist in a band. I'm not going to go over to a band practice and just start talking about this stuff. Maybe we should be able to, but this place feels safe and of course the anonymity of it really helps. There are a lot of brave people putting their faces on this issue. Bravo to them. I'm not one. At least not now. I also own a business in the community. It should be a great thing to let people know that I'm working on recovery for porn addiction, but I'm not sure everyone would feel the same way. A lot of people have hangups with people in AA or NA. I think a recovering porn addict might turn some people off. Sadly, the idea of porn has become so main stream that it's joked about and mentioned all the time on TV and in movies. I hate to see this because it validates people who are watching it all the time as it being o.k. I thought it was ok. for years until I realized what it was doing to me.