Thank you, Zaraki!
To be fair, I understand the 90 days as a rough baseline to work toward in 'rebooting' physiologically from a habit that has devastated our dopamine receptors, cutting link between true pleasure with a real human being, and our penis. There's also a roughly 60 days, more or less, to address brain-fog (hypofrontality) and p-memory (DeltaFos B). Also, it generally takes 3 to 4 months to change a habit...
So, in the beginning, counting days might make sense. But after a while, it quit making sense in my journey as it began to be a negative. I wasn't after any particular goal or 'abstinence challenge' (90 day or 120 day), which I had already completed a couple of times last year any way.
I can definitely relate to the fear or possibility of lapsing right when you're about to hit your target number...!
But now simply living life free from P, PMO and MO (which agrees with your EasyPeasy Method), counting days feels almost like 'counting down' to a lapse. Or it creates a false sense that I'm alright at X-amount of days, when other things could be going on against recovering.
Not counting days for me also diminishes porn in my mind, that it's not some all-powerful thing I'm trying to avoid, and it takes pressure off of me from failing. If I lapsed, I'm not stepping on the 3rd-rail of my recovery, it's not curtains or the end of the world. While not desireable, it's not a show stopper. Can neural pathways be resensitized? Sure. Can old habits become rehabitualized? Definitely. So, we address what needs addressing, but without all the pressure.
Good luck in your journey!
It's all part of not being defined by the habit yes? Part of shedding any addiction is the point where one no longer identifies as an addict to it i.e we're not "trying to quit" because "we've quit". Though my struggles with PMO continue, I am over a year cigarette free and I honestly couldn't tell you the exact number of days it's been since my last one. There's probably some wisdom to the observation that counting days beyond a certain point actually becomes detrimental.
All these things are just tools in the end, constructs we make & use to the greater purpose of meaningful recovery yes? If the tool no longer serves a purpose, why continue to use it?