King Leer said:So I just finished work and I'm completely wiped out. I fast on Mondays and Wednesdays until dinner time I can tell my willpower is completely depleted so I figured I'd write this journal and then get off my phone as I can tell it would be trouble. Peace
Yeah for sure also I have had more stress cuz I am going back to school. Typically if I get too tired I will just eat something I am not unbalanced in my eating habits so much it's has just been many things accumulating causing high stress. But things are looking up thanks for the postTheHeartacheKid said:King Leer said:So I just finished work and I'm completely wiped out. I fast on Mondays and Wednesdays until dinner time I can tell my willpower is completely depleted so I figured I'd write this journal and then get off my phone as I can tell it would be trouble. Peace
I can't give you dietary advice, obviously, but with the fasting, when we're hungry like that, as you said our willpower is less. Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired (HALT) are the four main feelings addicts (and really all of us) watch out for. We're more likely to make a poorer decision in that space.
So if the fasting works for you, keep doing it. Just be cognizant of how you're feeling when hungry like that. Keep it up, you're doing well!
All you gotta do is chill out!King Leer said:I Had a sexual dream that completely messed with my head. Also I was drinking today at work. Boy I am really doing great. This all accumulated into one big stupid relapse. Fuck me.
Thank you! Yes these are great points to meditate upon. Emotions off the top of my head would be Listlessness and probably self doubt. I am moving to a career that can allow me to help people but it seems hypocritical since sometimes I feel I can barely help myself. I like the idea of forcing myself into a new habit, it beats self-destruction.Hi King Leer,
Welcome back to the forum though I am sorry to hear of your troubles over the recent weeks. As somewhat of a creature of habit myself, I can strongly relate to how difficult periods of transition & great change such as the one you're experiencing right now are. The PMO is the auto-pilot go to, perhaps because it some ways the habit is a constant, an effective, quick, cheap & total distraction and it 'soothes' (read - numbs) the emotions.
I have been in the process of moving over recent weeks myself, something which is still ongoing due to shortages of both time and money. definitely takes it toll.
Do you think you could identify emotion(s) this period has been making you feel? I.e is it anxiety or worry over the future? Is it stress or frustration in the present? Is it sadness, loss or regret linked to leaving the past behind? Is it all of the above? Is it none of the above. Depending on what this is, I think you will be able to find a particular way to manage this. Something that may be helpful for all of the above could be to remind yourself & list the potential positives that may be in store as well as the ways this change will improve your life. Perhaps there are points in the past that you have overcome similar changes? I say this as there can be security & stability to be found in knowing that you've been here before and 'you've got this' so to speak.
Other than the emotional stuff, is there some way you could establish even a small regular routine to set the day 'on track'? A personal example (just an example) is that I recently made a rule to have a shower and be dressed before doing ANYTHING else in the day. I found I was doing this at different times and therefore delaying 'starting' the day, which lead to lapses. Changing this was the start of my work to re-cement a new routine.
Hope some of this stuff helps. Wishing you all the best.