This time I have to quit it for good!

zackergeet

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Day 78. Yesterday I was with a girl and gave me a hand and blow job and I was hard as a rock. Unfortunately could not test penetration but erection came super fast and it was during the fifteen minutes. And today morning wood was good let’s see how this impacts the progress. Do I MO’ed but no using P. Fuck P!
 

zackergeet

Active Member
Day 79 without P and 2MO’ed with chick.( I think I should count it as M although the girl did it, oh well) important thing is no P that thing is poison for every man.
 

Tylrt09

Member
Hey man I read a lot of this and really appreciate you posting about everything I’m 5 days in from no P or M but Have had a couple successful blowjobs.. is it okay to continue having a sex life like I want to have sex my libido is there I just am devasted cause my guy isn’t performing for the actual sex.. I’ve never been through this so it’s crazy and I’m wondering if it’s actual Ed but then it works sometimes for bjs and I get hard and aroused from her for sure but soon as I go to do the deed it dies.. I was M like 3 times a day for about a year.. and I definitely crave P I miss it .. idk I just wondered your guys thoughts on contoniuong to try and have sex or masturbating while resisting porn.. also if that’s a yes should I be taking my Ed pills is that okay ? I guess Idk I just want to be healthy again a sex life is important and it’s devastating to not be able to have that .. hopefully you guys can help and congrats on all the progresss!
 

zackergeet

Active Member
Hey man I read a lot of this and really appreciate you posting about everything I’m 5 days in from no P or M but Have had a couple successful blowjobs.. is it okay to continue having a sex life like I want to have sex my libido is there I just am devasted cause my guy isn’t performing for the actual sex.. I’ve never been through this so it’s crazy and I’m wondering if it’s actual Ed but then it works sometimes for bjs and I get hard and aroused from her for sure but soon as I go to do the deed it dies.. I was M like 3 times a day for about a year.. and I definitely crave P I miss it .. idk I just wondered your guys thoughts on contoniuong to try and have sex or masturbating while resisting porn.. also if that’s a yes should I be taking my Ed pills is that okay ? I guess Idk I just want to be healthy again a sex life is important and it’s devastating to not be able to have that .. hopefully you guys can help and congrats on all the progresss!
I was the same as you, I used to watch P a lot and M at least three times a day, at first I just suffered delay ejaculation which I thought it was good because I could last longer but the I started to have ED and it was horrible, I have no idea how it started but I got it. And if you do plenty of research you will find how poisonous and hazardous is P for us men. How the dopamine is so high when we see P because the novelty and the vastly genres there are that when we have a woman in front of us, does not produce us the same amount of excitement. I recommend you to read two books “your brain on porn” and “addicted to intern porn” just Google them and you will find valuable information and how people that were struggling with this PIED or ED three could recover. And I understand the craves for Porn, the need to check that your guys is alive but trust do not look at Porn, just erase it from your life, it does not matter how many times you fall. Try, try and you will see the benefits of a life without P. I am not cured yet because I have not had te chance to have sex but hopefully I will recover we have to strong!
 

zackergeet

Active Member
Day 80! Yesterday was a tough tough day, I became crazy I was craving for chicks and open to check some chicks instagrams, the minute I realize what I was doing I close them. I was craving so hard but I have to control my self I check some photos but I did not do anything else. Cannot believe how urges came so hard after I MO’ed with this girl the last days. I cannot be flexible with this, I have not relapsed so far and I will not do it.
 

Tylrt09

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Yea man, well I still don’t know a few things things like is it okay to still M without P? I know it’s early to be expecting anything but I keep trying with my girl every couple days.. it’s frustrating cause I get so hard and then it just disappears the moment we go to have sex.. I guess I’m wondering are you like sure it’s pied? Not just regular Ed? How can you tell I can still O without P idk.. should I be taking cialis to help with my problem ya think? Until this reboot takes affect? What do you think man? Sorry about your urges have you thought about maybe having your girl help with those things or no?
 

zackergeet

Active Member
Hello @Tylrt09 since here most of us are not doctors or experts in the topic we just can talk about experiences which are different to each person. If you want to know your ED comes from a physiological factor you should book an appointment (just to discard that possibility) if you get hard with your girlfriend with hj or bj but not with penetration it can be ED anxiety, but if you don’t pleasure being inside here perhaps it can PIED. So do your research so you can be sure what do you have (for example the book I suggests in the previous comments talk about how masturbatin without porn can make you go back to porn because your brain network is set up to make them go together) so try to check what is the case with you, you are the only that can make sure what is the best solution. Good luck!
 

Biz

Member
Yea man, well I still don’t know a few things things like is it okay to still M without P? I know it’s early to be expecting anything but I keep trying with my girl every couple days.. it’s frustrating cause I get so hard and then it just disappears the moment we go to have sex.. I guess I’m wondering are you like sure it’s pied? Not just regular Ed? How can you tell I can still O without P idk.. should I be taking cialis to help with my problem ya think? Until this reboot takes affect? What do you think man? Sorry about your urges have you thought about maybe having your girl help with those things or no?
Hey man,

I went completely off the wagon for thirty days, and it was good enough that I can have sex again, I think take some time with no outside influences, and when you’re capable of masturbating without P, you can potentially be close. Everyone is different, now quitting P for near 90 days, a lot of the porn I used to get off on, my attraction is fading for that shit. I hunger more for connections with women. Don’t get me off I think after 30 days abstinence, I Md like crazy cuz I think my body was adjusting to the lack of stimulation. Now though my kinks are down like halfway and I am enjoying sex a lot more. Now I’m trying to quell my need to masturbate, I don’t look at hardcore porn, or jerk off with any supplementary materials. However I do look at some escort ads and shit like that, but I’m lowering the frequency at that too. All this just to say everyone is different bro, I exp a lot of growth just by swearing off the hardcore crap.
 

Tylrt09

Member
Hey man,

I went completely off the wagon for thirty days, and it was good enough that I can have sex again, I think take some time with no outside influences, and when you’re capable of masturbating without P, you can potentially be close. Everyone is different, now quitting P for near 90 days, a lot of the porn I used to get off on, my attraction is fading for that shit. I hunger more for connections with women. Don’t get me off I think after 30 days abstinence, I Md like crazy cuz I think my body was adjusting to the lack of stimulation. Now though my kinks are down like halfway and I am enjoying sex a lot more. Now I’m trying to quell my need to masturbate, I don’t look at hardcore porn, or jerk off with any supplementary materials. However I do look at some escort ads and shit like that, but I’m lowering the frequency at that too. All this just to say everyone is different bro, I exp a lot of growth just by swearing off the hardcore crap.
Hey man thanks for the reply so for your 90 days did you masturbate at all? And it’s only been about a week since no porn but I have had successfully had bjs and M without P .. it’s good to hear their are success stories out there ! So when you say no outside influences I should be taking a break from anything like M and stuff with my girl? Lmk man thanks for your time
 

Biz

Member
Hey man thanks for the reply so for your 90 days did you masturbate at all? And it’s only been about a week since no porn but I have had successfully had bjs and M without P .. it’s good to hear their are success stories out there ! So when you say no outside influences I should be taking a break from anything like M and stuff with my girl? Lmk man thanks for your time
30 days I went hardmode, then I started to be able to have sex,since then I M but never to anything, and I try to avoid any video of anything at all times. In my situation that overbearing stimulus is what gave me pied. I can M to memories and face no prob, I had to remove P and I have since July 7th and have been fine. It sucked for a while M’ing with that fix but I got use to it, and my sexuality has died down and become more realistic.
 

Tylrt09

Member
30 days I went hardmode, then I started to be able to have sex,since then I M but never to anything, and I try to avoid any video of anything at all times. In my situation that overbearing stimulus is what gave me pied. I can M to memories and face no prob, I had to remove P and I have since July 7th and have been fine. It sucked for a while M’ing with that fix but I got use to it, and my sexuality has died down and become more realistic.
Thanks for your advice man.. I actually relapsed today.. so I’m starting over and considering hardmode for 30 days.. idk what else todo I’m not even sure i have pied cause I can get off without P so maybe it’s just Ed and I’m hoping it can be fixed “. There’s only one way to tell and that’s do this damn thing.. glad I have this forum for help appreciate you guys
 
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