Some people get cured in 90 days and start rewiring, others take 200 days approx. in that moment, I was a little scared since I don’t know how long it will take me to fully recover but then I pull myself together and realized it does not matter how long it takes since eventually I will get there.
Great streak and continue on it as well!Day 100! In general I feel much better I feel alive down there although I have noticed that i still cannot get it up by my own hand. But I get morning woods and random elections, since recovery is going well but I am getting complacent since sometime I see some cute pics of girls, and sometimes I found myself looking at them for several minutes but I don’t do anything besides looking but still I should try not to look. 100 days is a great start and I will continue until I recover and delete P from my life for ever.
...but I read some comments or posts that I can relate to. I read about how negative feelings as a positive impulse to get rid negative outcomes always bring negative results.
Thank you so much @Phineas 808 for commenting, yeah i totally understand what you mean. Perhaps I just looked at it from one perspective but I agree with you totally. Let’s keep working to get rid of this habit, hope you are doing well as well.Hi, Zackergeet! Congrats on triple-digit territory! I understand and agree with what you say above about taking a negative approach during your recovery, as being negative.
But I think my comment was misunderstood by the person who replied to it. I meant a redirection of [negative] energy that was already present, toward a positive end- which sounds like what [X-person's name] said, but rather than expecting negativity to have a positive result, it was more like transmuting lead into gold, or better, as in Judo/Juijitsu, using your opponents energy to your advantage.
Example: in the event of a lapse, anger may be a natural response. I can take that negative energy and (especially if fueled by shame) aim it at my self... Or, I can take that same anger (which is naturally there in lieu of a lapse anyway) and refocus that energy toward a stronger resolve.
That negativity may be there regardless, and will eventually dissipate. But why waste it? By no means- never direct it at yourself, but rather use its force to 'push' you in the right direction...?