I lost 9 months streak, coudn't get hard even with porn. Maybe not PIED?

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zajanomlet

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I'm 28, I have been porn addict for 15 years, always had erection problems and never had been able to have real sex only blowjobs, handjobs, but never PIV. I was always thinking that my ED is porn related. Since today.

I just relapsed and finished my longest ever 9 months streak... I noticed something strange and now have doubts if really my problem is porn related. I was watching porn today and my dick just got barely hard like 20% just by watching, when I started stroking I reached like 50-60% hardness and then it was only 90% hard seconds before climaxing. This is strange for me becuase I guess after that long time of abstinece I shoud be rock hard. Even with porn I'm not able to reach strong erection and when I stop stroking I'm loosing it really fast...

I did 9 months normal mode. No porn and no masturbation. I only let myself orgasm with girlfriend (handjobs). I noticed a few real benefits like I was able to get mildly hard just by kissing (it never happend to me before), my erection quality was better during hj/bj, rock hard morning woods, more motivation ect. I tired PIV sex two times with Viagra but wasn't successful. I got rock hard but when attempting penetration I lost it. I blamed performance anxiety. The problem is that during hj, masturbation even with porn I'm not able to reach rock hard erections like morning woods. I was only able to reach that level of erection two times with Viagra (50 mg sildenafil). I was never able to reach that level with handjobs, masturbatin even with porn... So what's wrong with me? Why I'm only rock hard during morning woods and with use of Viagra? Why I can't make it really hard during hj or masturbation. Maybe it's some kind of physical problem or I don't know. I got super depressed because I was always thinking porn is the issue, but now after 9 months of abstinence I coudn't get hard even with porn...

Maybe problem is somewhere else? Because really I don't get it why even with porn I can't get hard...
I have always believed I had PIED, but PIED is when you can get hard with porn, but can't get hard in real life. Now I see no difference as my erection is weak with or without porn. Or maybe my PIED is so severe that even after 9 months I'm not cured...
 
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Maglue

Active Member
Without really knowing I'd say your porn related masterbated sexual disfunction...
Maybe you did things like edge and death grip which will take longer to heal...
Just trust the process and I'd even abstain from Orgasim..
 
Puggler

Puggler

Active Member
If you are severe pied case, it may take up to 2 years. But in the end you will recover. Dont worry about it but you should try 90 days hardmode first
 
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Jeks

Well-Known Member
You could just be a severe case. Getting no erection even with porn is a known problem in the rebooting community with severe cases. But getting a check up from a urologist is never a bad idea, just to make sure.
But your experiences with rebooting sound pretty PIED-ish to me.

Also thinking it the other way around: getting strong morning wood, but no erection while masturbating doesnt sound like something physiological.


 
Puggler

Puggler

Active Member
Jeks said:
You could just be a severe case. Getting no erection even with porn is a known problem in the rebooting community with severe cases. But getting a check up from a urologist is never a bad idea, just to make sure.
But your experiences with rebooting sound pretty PIED-ish to me.

Also thinking it the other way around: getting strong morning wood, but no erection while masturbating doesnt sound like something physiological.
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Jek is telling you the right thing. if you ever able to get full hard even with pills or morning wood or etc.. there is no physical damage
 
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Jeks

Well-Known Member
The fact, that you can get an erection in the morning leads me to believe, that its nothing physiological. When you are having doubts, get a check up from a urologist.
Besides that, keep rebooting longer. Maybe also do a time out from sex for a while. Sometimes people say a break from sex was the missing piece of the puzzle for them.
 
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