Nick Simons
Active Member
Hey Jerry - no need to apologize. I guarantee we all have a version of your story wrapped up in ours. Great job on being candid and trying to move your relationship to a better place.
Oh and forgot to update that I was a smart man and didn't bring up the issue above with the wife. Thanks @Phineas 808 for the posts. Just frustrating to MO after sex!! I need to learn from this and realize that even after sex be prepared for the Chaser Demon! Like PMO I need to have a plan of attack in place for this moving forward!Yes, you will conquer this too! I'm truly a 'brother-in-arms' concerning the temptation to MO and edge lately. For me, it's not a chaser effect as it is the lower brain wanting to make my last episode (8/8/21) a habit..
Thanks Guitar! Sometimes I don't feel like I'm "doing well" and I read the same with you. The good news is we are doing well and heck your doing awesome! I started my new journey with no MO! I haven't had to many urges to watch P which is nice but really need to concentrate on the "chaser effect" after sex with the wife. I have lost this battle a couple of times but I now feel more prepared for it next time! Thanks for your comments as always! I hope your continuing on your journey and finding peace with whatever you need with your wife! Prayers for you brother!Hi Jerry, Sounds like you are still very focused which means all of this is working. Good to reset the counter I suppose, but you know what to do and are doing it. Great to hear.
Thanks Jerry. I'm feeling pretty good. So much going on in my life right now and that really helps keep things further at bay.Thanks Guitar! Sometimes I don't feel like I'm "doing well" and I read the same with you. The good news is we are doing well and heck your doing awesome! I started my new journey with no MO! I haven't had to many urges to watch P which is nice but really need to concentrate on the "chaser effect" after sex with the wife. I have lost this battle a couple of times but I now feel more prepared for it next time! Thanks for your comments as always! I hope your continuing on your journey and finding peace with whatever you need with your wife! Prayers for you brother!