Sangiha
Member
Hello,
first of all i want to applaud all of you ladies who are on this forum trying to help your partner get through this addiction. I am in a tricky situation and I wanted to ask for advice from another gender’s perspective.
I am in the middle of my reboot (about 100 days in), still struggling with erectile dysfunction and some depression. My girlfriend left me about a year ago, I broke her heart by being numb, depressed, and emotionally unavailable. Her leaving me was a huge wake up call and I have been really trying to improve myself and get my mojo back. She recently contacted me to let me know that she really wants to get back together and make things right. I am so happy to hear this and my hearts want her back. I am afraid that i am not sexually ready to see her just yet. I am thinking i need at least a few more months. I explained what i am going through and that i might need more time. She seemed confused that i wont see her even if i want to but she is very supportive of my journey. I am scared that I will let her down if I saw her right now..
Do you think I should take more time to fully reboot myself to see her again? Who knows when that might be.. or should I see her knowing that I might fail in the bedroom?
I am so torn. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
first of all i want to applaud all of you ladies who are on this forum trying to help your partner get through this addiction. I am in a tricky situation and I wanted to ask for advice from another gender’s perspective.
I am in the middle of my reboot (about 100 days in), still struggling with erectile dysfunction and some depression. My girlfriend left me about a year ago, I broke her heart by being numb, depressed, and emotionally unavailable. Her leaving me was a huge wake up call and I have been really trying to improve myself and get my mojo back. She recently contacted me to let me know that she really wants to get back together and make things right. I am so happy to hear this and my hearts want her back. I am afraid that i am not sexually ready to see her just yet. I am thinking i need at least a few more months. I explained what i am going through and that i might need more time. She seemed confused that i wont see her even if i want to but she is very supportive of my journey. I am scared that I will let her down if I saw her right now..
Do you think I should take more time to fully reboot myself to see her again? Who knows when that might be.. or should I see her knowing that I might fail in the bedroom?
I am so torn. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.