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Cp6uH

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Well it has been over 4 and half months since I started rebooting and over 100 days of hardmode.I have a huge anxiety problem about putting a condom on and penetrating.Everything is great until that moment comes when I need to put a condom on...I catch myself completely out of the sexual moment just worrying about my dick but I manage to keep it up manually and then when I need to penetrate it's over for me I just can't keep stimulating myself and I go limp.I'm seriously considering taking some ED pills just to be sure that my anxious thoughts won't kill my dick again.If anybody has any advice I would much appreciate it.
 
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guitar1968

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Cp6uH said:
Well it has been over 4 and half months since I started rebooting and over 100 days of hardmode.I have a huge anxiety problem about putting a condom on and penetrating.Everything is great until that moment comes when I need to put a condom on...I catch myself completely out of the sexual moment just worrying about my dick but I manage to keep it up manually and then when I need to penetrate it's over for me I just can't keep stimulating myself and I go limp.I'm seriously considering taking some ED pills just to be sure that my anxious thoughts won't kill my dick again.If anybody has any advice I would much appreciate it.
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You and me both brother. I know the ED is porn induced but then my terrible anxiety is making it even worse. It has ruined my sex life with my wife and I don't know if we can ever get it back. I don't have advice, just letting you know that you are not alone. I'll follow this post and see if we can all gain some knowledge and figure it out together. I think there are ways to fight sexual anxiety and I'm going to be doing a lot of reading while I'm my journey to stop using porn. I'm only at 35 days so far. I was going to go hard mode, MO one time with no porn involved and realized I really do need to do hard mode. So no more masturbation of any kind for at least 90 days. And of course, never with porn again.
 
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Cp6uH

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guitar1968 said:
You and me both brother. I know the ED is porn induced but then my terrible anxiety is making it even worse. It has ruined my sex life with my wife and I don't know if we can ever get it back. I don't have advice, just letting you know that you are not alone. I'll follow this post and see if we can all gain some knowledge and figure it out together. I think there are ways to fight sexual anxiety and I'm going to be doing a lot of reading while I'm my journey to stop using porn. I'm only at 35 days so far. I was going to go hard mode, MO one time with no porn involved and realized I really do need to do hard mode. So no more masturbation of any kind for at least 90 days. And of course, never with porn again.
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Keep going bro for those 90 days and keep trying with your wife along the way and I'm sure that you will succeed!
 
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Cp6uH

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Fappy said:
Ahhhh yes, the dreaded fear of the condom... ive been there many a time. Struggling to get it out of the packet in time is like trying to defuse a bomb! But that will fix itself over time, and youll have no trouble at all with the things.
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It's not like I have fear bro...I'm not at all scared of not satisfying my gf or scared of condoms, it's just that it drags me out of sexual moment and since I'm aware of this I start worrying about losing my erection and I do lose it.So my guess is take pills just once and then even when the condom drags me out of the moment I will get back right into it with hard dick.
 
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Cp6uH

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Fappy said:
Ahhhh yes, the dreaded fear of the condom... ive been there many a time. Struggling to get it out of the packet in time is like trying to defuse a bomb! But that will fix itself over time, and youll have no trouble at all with the things.
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How much time did you need to become capable of having normal sex
 
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Pedro Delgado

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Cp6uH said:
Well it has been over 4 and half months since I started rebooting and over 100 days of hardmode.I have a huge anxiety problem about putting a condom on and penetrating.Everything is great until that moment comes when I need to put a condom on...I catch myself completely out of the sexual moment just worrying about my dick but I manage to keep it up manually and then when I need to penetrate it's over for me I just can't keep stimulating myself and I go limp.I'm seriously considering taking some ED pills just to be sure that my anxious thoughts won't kill my dick again.If anybody has any advice I would much appreciate it.
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Not a bad idea, becoming pill dependant to have erections seems to be really helpful... For how long have you been dealing with this problem?
 
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Cp6uH

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Pedro Delgado said:
Not a bad idea, becoming pill dependant to have erections seems to be really helpful... For how long have you been dealing with this problem?
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Hey man thanks for the reply,of course I don't intend to become pill dependant I just want to have first sex without a fear of losing my erection and to finally satisfy my gf with a dick that's all.Well if you mean PIED as soon as I realized I have dysfunction I immediately googled everything about it and eventually stumbled upon YBOP and RN by Gabe and it all made so much sense...so I've been dealing with PIED for about 4.5 months.If you mean anxiety i started to feel much better after 3-3.5 months and failed at every attempt...so anxiety is going on for about a month or month and half.
 
Pedro Delgado

Pedro Delgado

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Cp6uH said:
Hey man thanks for the reply,of course I don't intend to become pill dependant I just want to have first sex without a fear of losing my erection and to finally satisfy my gf with a dick that's all.Well if you mean PIED as soon as I realized I have dysfunction I immediately googled everything about it and eventually stumbled upon YBOP and RN by Gabe and it all made so much sense...so I've been dealing with PIED for about 4.5 months.If you mean anxiety i started to feel much better after 3-3.5 months and failed at every attempt...so anxiety is going on for about a month or month and half.
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Well, anxiety sure plays an important role in PIED, and, in my experience, people get the opposite of help when trying pills, what frustrates you most about your PIED case?
 
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Cp6uH

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Pedro Delgado said:
Well, anxiety sure plays an important role in PIED, and, in my experience, people get the opposite of help when trying pills, what frustrates you most about your PIED case?
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The inability to be sexual even though I feel like I'm totally ready.I have urges to MO(not for porn,it is out forever doesn't even come up),have wet dreams,MW, erections while doing stuff with gf,but still unable to perform
 
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Honestly get on Roman and get yourself some sildenaphil. Works backwards. Don’t take a full dose, and after 2/3 sexual interactions scale the dosage back. I did this and pretty much do not need a pill anymore. Sometimes the conditioning porn has done to your brain can be too great for people who never wired with real life partners. While traditionally I am against pharmaceuticals in life, I think kick starting your new sex life with ED drugs is sometimes necessary. Be wary though, it is easy to become dependent on them
 
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