hi,
everyones recovery time is different, so yes, it might be perfectly reasonable to assume its going to be longer than the standard 90 days. i wouldnt say you are doing anything wrong! 90 days hardmode, that can only mean youre doing everything right.
dont stress over it too much, your body will let you know when its healed, until then relax and know youre doing everything right.
really get involved in your hobbies too. throw yourself completely into them, whatever they are.or, get a new hobby! anything to occupy your brain so that it isnt obsessing over your penis or reboot. put a (non-sexy) movie on and zone out.
case in point: there was a Van Damme marathon on the other day, fuck it was good. i spent the whole day watching a guy dodge bullets and kill 100s of arseholes just because he can kick really high (sometimes he spin kicks, too, so...) and it was fantastic. just get out of your head when you are stressed and forget about those things. oh! there was also a bit where he flipped off a motobike, sumersaulted in the air, shot the gas tank while still in the air, the bike exploded and killed a car full of arseholes!
sorry, got distracted...
anyway, you have acheived something very good, dont lose it to obsessive thoughts!