15 months of recovery

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Armani55

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Hlo mates
I am 27 year old guy. When i was 21 year i got to know about my PIED then i avoid masturbation or just masturbate ones in a month. But i watch porn daily and fantasize daily. Now from 15 months i am on hardmode rewiring I had ocd but after rewiring its almost gone. I am more confident and fit then before.
I have morning wood 60-70% and sometimes it retains and sometimes it gone within minute.
What to do guys its been 15months how much more time it will take. I am confused. Is procrastination or phone addiction or any other additition leads to more time to rebooting. Plzz help
 
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PKCowned

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Honestly dude there are several different things that all heal at separate rates. There is your libido, your attitude towards sex, partners snd self, and your ability to get and maintain an erection. Do you have a partner or at least the drive to go seek a partner? Rewiring should be your main focus now that you have broken the conditioning
 
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Armani55

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Bro i dont have any partner and i am not seeking any partner due to hardmode. I just avoid porn, fantasize, stimulating thing and anything related to porn. My main focus is only and only rewiring.
 
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PKCowned

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Armani55 said:
Bro i dont have any partner and i am not seeking any partner due to hardmode. I just avoid porn, fantasize, stimulating thing and anything related to porn. My main focus is only and only rewiring.
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I’m glad to hear this man. 15 months is quite the feat. But you gotta have a partner to rewire. Doesn’t have to be a GF, but it should be someone you are comfortable with that understands you are in recovery. If done correctly, the mindset developed during rebooting can be applied to any addictive behavior. Procrastination and phone addiction are symptoms of an overall greater issue, and that is unhealthy ways of dealing with stress, anxiety or whatever it may be for the individual. We use PMO, the internet/phones or whatever as a way to ignore what is causing us problems. This is a very basic way to explain what an addiction is.

seeking someone to have sex with just to prove you can have sex defeats the purpose of the mental conditioning developed by the reboot. Tread carefully, and do it when you are comfortable. Best of luck man!
 
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Armani55

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Bro right now m not in the condition of affording a girlfriend. I have my career goals but i can work on procrastination and mobile addition. Hopefully after achieving goals i will make new gf. I will give my 100% to rewiring.
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pauljones100

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Armani55 said:
Hlo mates
I am 27 year old guy. When i was 21 year i got to know about my PIED then i avoid masturbation or just masturbate ones in a month. But i watch porn daily and fantasize daily. Now from 15 months i am on hardmode rewiring I had ocd but after rewiring its almost gone. I am more confident and fit then before.
I have morning wood 60-70% and sometimes it retains and sometimes it gone within minute.
What to do guys its been 15months how much more time it will take. I am confused. Is procrastination or phone addiction or any other additition leads to more time to rebooting. Plzz help
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Lets make this complicated struggle we all have dealt with or is currently dealing with easy...
-DO NOT BUST ANY NUTS!
-EXERCISE HARD. (weights/high intensity cardio)
-Diet (Eat clean)

Do this for 2-3 months daily.

The issue is the brain. The lack of dopamine. So with exercise and time... those dopamine receptors heal.

AGAIN. No nuts, exercise, eat clean. after a few months, if u have or find a lady you can be open with... let her know about ur situation... and slowly engage with cuddling and kissing. Reprogram your brain to the REAL touch of a woman. Your body will respond in proper time.

U have to heal your brain. U have to exercise your brain. The body will respond in due time.
 
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