How to Rewire without a partner ???

AJM

Active Member
Hello Reboot family ,
I am 32 yrs and 15th day of my rebooting.
Recently I am educating myself on Rewiring , which is the next step in reeboting.
All I have come to know is that - it must me non orgasmic contacts with your partner.
MY PROBLEM - fortunately or unfortunately I am single and intend to be same for next 5-6 months.
MY QUESTION - How do I navigate myself through rewiring process being single.
Thanks in advance.
 

Fappy

Respected Member
what do you mean? you dont need a partner in order to reboot.
All I have come to know is that - it must me non orgasmic contacts with your partner
why? what exactly are you reading?
 

AJM

Active Member
what do you mean? you dont need a partner in order to reboot.

why? what exactly are you reading?
Okay, is it ???
Hey Fappy would you educate me about the rewiring process a bit.
How can I rewire when I am single.
Thanks in advance.
 

Saiba-Kun

Member
Hello Reboot family ,
I am 32 yrs and 15th day of my rebooting.
Recently I am educating myself on Rewiring , which is the next step in reeboting.
All I have come to know is that - it must me non orgasmic contacts with your partner.
MY PROBLEM - fortunately or unfortunately I am single and intend to be same for next 5-6 months.
MY QUESTION - How do I navigate myself through rewiring process being single.
Thanks in advance.
Maybe it is very hard to rewire without a partner. But you need to know that, all you need to know is rewire doesn't require a partner to do. Whether you have a partner or not, you still can rewire or reboot yourself. As long you stay away from porn.
 

AJM

Active Member
Maybe it is very hard to rewire without a partner. But you need to know that, all you need to know is rewire doesn't require a partner to do. Whether you have a partner or not, you still can rewire or reboot yourself. As long you stay away from porn.
I get your point Saiba.
Appreciate your help, thank you !!!
 

Fappy

Respected Member
Okay, is it ???
Hey Fappy would you educate me about the rewiring process a bit.
How can I rewire when I am single.
Thanks in advance.
Yep, with or without a partner its the same thing, well the same goal anyway.
Youre trying to regain the normal functioning of your brain and dopamine receptors, both of which have been raped by your porn addiction. it takes about 90 days, thats the agreed upon standard but everyone is different. a while before that, though, you will start to see the benefits of it and you will discover that the rewiring is going along nicely when you suddenly feel better about yourself and life in general, your cock might regain some if its normal pre-PMO addict days, etc the benefits are unnumerable. suffice it to say, when you rewire your life will change for the better. dont get caught up in thinking that its so different rewiring when single or not, that doesnt concern you. there isnt a difference except for on paper, the method is still the same
 

AJM

Active Member
your brain and dopamine receptors, both of which have been raped by your porn addiction
Hahahahah , I just cant stop laughing.
You speak so much truth in a funny and light hearted way.
I appreciate your reply Fappy.
Yes I get you and am convinced that it doesnot matter whether I have a partner or not in reboot.
staying strong .
Thank You.
 

casanova

Member
Sorry but I disagree. Going hardmode one can feel lots of improvement like MW, vivid dreams etc after 1-2 months. But finishing 90 days, one have a successful reboot only. Rewire is the following step, and need a real partner.

It's more difficult without a permanent partner, but it should work as well with random dates, nuru massagists, or anything on that direction. But worry with that only after at least 70 days hardmode. Till then just focus on staying completely away from P, M and O. And sleeping as good as possible, no phone two hours before sleep. HIIT exercises, maybe take some zinc and vitamin d suplement, eat healthy and very important, don't play with your penis. Leave him in peace for at least 2 months. He will schrink and feel like a dead worm during the process. It might happen with you and your mood. But it gets naturally better with time.

After six months I'm almost healed, having succesful sex anytime and MW everyday now. If you want some insights and tips check my "Still no Libido" thread on 30-39 years sub forum. I went through it all.

Reboot works though, don't worry. Just do what is needed to be done and be patient. Especially during the dead penis flatlines you'll cross from time to time from now on till the third month (if you keep hardmode otherwise it will certainly last longer). :)
 

AJM

Active Member
Sorry but I disagree. Going hardmode one can feel lots of improvement like MW, vivid dreams etc after 1-2 months. But finishing 90 days, one have a successful reboot only. Rewire is the following step, and need a real partner.

It's more difficult without a permanent partner, but it should work as well with random dates, nuru massagists, or anything on that direction. But worry with that only after at least 70 days hardmode. Till then just focus on staying completely away from P, M and O. And sleeping as good as possible, no phone two hours before sleep. HIIT exercises, maybe take some zinc and vitamin d suplement, eat healthy and very important, don't play with your penis. Leave him in peace for at least 2 months. He will schrink and feel like a dead worm during the process. It might happen with you and your mood. But it gets naturally better with time.

After six months I'm almost healed, having succesful sex anytime and MW everyday now. If you want some insights and tips check my "Still no Libido" thread on 30-39 years sub forum. I went through it all.

Reboot works though, don't worry. Just do what is needed to be done and be patient. Especially during the dead penis flatlines you'll cross from time to time from now on till the third month (if you keep hardmode otherwise it will certainly last longer). :)
hey casanova,
I get your point.
I am quite early in my reboot journey so as of now I am not into rewiring.
Thank you for sharing your insights.
Very helpful ..
 

otanerferguson

Active Member
Congratulations on your journey @Ajinkya I wish you all the best and a swift recovery. If my journey is any indication, you will experience some great days and some really shitty days. Some stretches where every day you see some sort of improvement and then you'll go through weeks where nothing happens and you wonder if this is working. Stick to it, it is working. Yes, 90 days might be the biological time it takes for neuroreceptors to heal, but at day 90 things are still fragile and a single orgasm sends you back into a flatline for months like in the case of @casanova and me.

Like you say, it can be a blessing not having a partner during your reboot, because there is no pressure to perform. That said, I agree with the idea that you need to retrain your body to like real life girls. Their smell, how it feels when they touch you. I know it sounds obvious but porn screwed us up so deeply that there is a disconnect between what you know should be true and what happens once you are in the moment.

I've had the benefit of a very understanding girlfriend who has lived through this with me and I know that is not your case, but I still have good advice for you. I mostly don't see her during the week and since we are getting married, a lot of our weekends have been so full of stuff that there was not that many days where the pressure was there. But my girlfriend, while the recipient of the benefits, hasn't been the biggest source of rewiring process. In my case, it has been interacting with women in non-threatening, non-sexual situations.

During your reboot, put yourself out there where normal women are. Be close to them in a non creepy way. Talk to them. Go to coffee shops, malls, the supermarket. Make small talk with your servers, female staff, and women of all ages while waiting in line. They don't have to be instagram models but regular women. Again, in a conversational, non-creepy way.

I am now taking a live yoga class two or three times a week. There's mostly women there. A lot of them in great shape, bent over in tights. You get the health benefits of the exercise and get real life stimulus. It's a place where you're kind of "allowed to stare" without looking predatory. I chat with them before and after the class, not flirting or anything, just interacting with them, laughing, joking around.

Another rewiring booster for me was a nuru massage on day 91, like @casanova says, in which I asked the masseuse not to masturbate me, just rub herself against me. It just wakes up the tiger in you and it's cheaper than an escort. I haven't been back. Just be careful not to cum, because that might set you back. Don't take risks, wear a mask of course, even if vaccinated.

Others have gone the way of Escorts, but be careful because that can turn itself into an expensive addiction, with lots of health risks.

Anyway, wish you the best.
 
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AJM

Active Member
Thanks Hugo,
I couldnt have asked for a better and illustrative answer.
The practical Tips are alredy helping me .
Deeply appreciate your help and concern.
regards.
 

Honey98$

Member
Congratulations on your journey @Ajinkya I wish you all the best and a swift recovery. If my journey is any indication, you will experience some great days and some really shitty days. Some stretches where every day you see some sort of improvement and then you'll go through weeks where nothing happens and you wonder if this is working. Stick to it, it is working. Yes, 90 days might be the biological time it takes for neuroreceptors to heal, but at day 90 things are still fragile and a single orgasm sends you back into a flatline for months like in the case of @casanova and me.

Like you say, it can be a blessing not having a partner during your reboot, because there is no pressure to perform. That said, I agree with the idea that you need to retrain your body to like real life girls. Their smell, how it feels when they touch you. I know it sounds obvious but porn screwed us up so deeply that there is a disconnect between what you know should be true and what happens once you are in the moment.

I've had the benefit of a very understanding girlfriend who has lived through this with me and I know that is not your case, but I still have good advice for you. I mostly don't see her during the week and since we are getting married, a lot of our weekends have been so full of stuff that there was not that many days where the pressure was there. But my girlfriend, while the recipient of the benefits, hasn't been the biggest source of rewiring process. In my case, it has been interacting with women in non-threatening, non-sexual situations.

During your reboot, put yourself out there where normal women are. Be close to them in a non creepy way. Talk to them. Go to coffee shops, malls, the supermarket. Make small talk with your servers, female staff, and women of all ages while waiting in line. They don't have to be instagram models but regular women. Again, in a conversational, non-creepy way.

I am now taking a live yoga class two or three times a week. There's mostly women there. A lot of them in great shape, bent over in tights. You get the health benefits of the exercise and get real life stimulus. It's a place where you're kind of "allowed to stare" without looking predatory. I chat with them before and after the class, not flirting or anything, just interacting with them, laughing, joking around.

Another rewiring booster for me was a nuru massage on day 91, like @casanova says, in which I asked the masseuse not to masturbate me, just rub herself against me. It just wakes up the tiger in you and it's cheaper than an escort. I haven't been back. Just be careful not to cum, because that might set you back. Don't take risks, wear a mask of course, even if vaccinated.

Others have gone the way of Escorts, but be careful because that can turn itself into an expensive addiction, with lots of health risks.

Anyway, wish you the best.
Hey bro i had a wetdream few days back. It put me into the flatline. I was getting random erections before that. Do you believe is it the case?
 

Sheriff

New Member
Hey bro i had a wetdream few days back. It put me into the flatline. I was getting random erections before that. Do you believe is it the case?
i think you’re back from flatline quickly, sometimes it might set you back. But I haven’t fell into flatline after wet dream
 
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