Hi everybody,
first of all please forgive me for any mistake I will make writing here.. English is not my mother tongue as you have probably already noticed.
Directly to the point: I think of this as an investmen plan. I need to stick to this path strictly and being disciplined every day, otherwise I won't get any benefit..
Many times I tried, but this time for the first time I decided to involve my gf in it (she already knew of my addiction): she knows that I started this mission, she has been told that I need her to ask me about how it goes, if not every day at least every couple of them, and I set milestones with prizes to share with her if reached.
The mission already started, the 25th of June. First milestone reached, yesterday, 7 days.. sushi for prize
Every day I commit myself to look at the ipad, where I keep track of this journey, in the morning, when I get to the office (that is the place where I usually collapse, almost never at home luckily). I also take notes about if I had urges during the day, if I had sex or "cuddles" with my gf, even if I had sex-themed dreams, like tonight happened.
The first week went on too easily to be true.. next milestone: 15 days --> icecream by the lake the prize.
I hope sharing this will help me to be strong even more and that it could be helpful for some of you.. I give a lot of importance to the fact that I involved my gf in the path...
Let's see ...
have a nice day everyone!
D
first of all please forgive me for any mistake I will make writing here.. English is not my mother tongue as you have probably already noticed.
Directly to the point: I think of this as an investmen plan. I need to stick to this path strictly and being disciplined every day, otherwise I won't get any benefit..
Many times I tried, but this time for the first time I decided to involve my gf in it (she already knew of my addiction): she knows that I started this mission, she has been told that I need her to ask me about how it goes, if not every day at least every couple of them, and I set milestones with prizes to share with her if reached.
The mission already started, the 25th of June. First milestone reached, yesterday, 7 days.. sushi for prize
Every day I commit myself to look at the ipad, where I keep track of this journey, in the morning, when I get to the office (that is the place where I usually collapse, almost never at home luckily). I also take notes about if I had urges during the day, if I had sex or "cuddles" with my gf, even if I had sex-themed dreams, like tonight happened.
The first week went on too easily to be true.. next milestone: 15 days --> icecream by the lake the prize.
I hope sharing this will help me to be strong even more and that it could be helpful for some of you.. I give a lot of importance to the fact that I involved my gf in the path...
Let's see ...
have a nice day everyone!
D
