Newcomers report needing help from everyone and discuss problems with PIED

amaze99

amaze99

Member
Hello everyone, I am new to this forum and I have been observing this forum for a while. I have the same account in the NOFAP community
Let me introduce myself first
I watched porn when I was 12 or 13 years old, until 2016 when I was in a relationship. I could easily kiss and touch my girlfriend and have a fantasy erection. In 2018, I had sex successfully, and it became easy and hard! Very good at sex
But all the while I've been watching porn and upgrading hardcore content
(I have masturbated while watching porn from 2012 to 2021. Because of the frequency of masturbation, I have rarely had morning wood, hardly ever. I had morning wood when I was a kid.
Things get worse, my mood gets worse, my libido goes down, my penis feels dead
Having sex with a girlfriend requires masturbation with a death grip
2020 is a bad year and I need pills to help me get an erection, but PILLS works for me and I can get an erection with just about 0.01mg pills,
2021 I am already 22 years old and I want to live a good life with my girlfriend in the future. I really don't want to give up her. Now I am depressed every day without sexual desire and can't feel happy
So, realizing my problem, I started NOFAP on May 28, 2021. On June 12, my girlfriend and I had several orgasms with the help of pills, which is still hardcore mode to this day
Who can give me good advice and help? I hope the seniors can guide me. I am very anxious and depressed now.
For a few years before NOFAP I felt like I was in a flat line due to masturbation and watching porn, low libido, no motivation, no pleasure, numbness of mind, loss of connection between brain and penis
Here are some questions I would like someone to answer about Pied
1. Is desensitization caused by everyday unhappiness and lack of sexual desire? How long can the happiness of childhood be restored
2. Is the lack of libido due to the fact that your dopamine threshold is so high that you can't turn on when you upgrade to porn
Can I be restored? How long will it take? I have a girlfriend and how should I have sex with her?
4. Is this permanent damage to the brain? Does it change the structure of the brain
5. Are we in a situation where dopamine levels are too low? and will this leads to Parkinson's disease?
6.Quit masturbating morning wood how long to come back
English is not my mother language forgive for my grammar, thank you all, lots of love
 
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amaze99

amaze99

Member
yes it did，after that i am in a endless flatline ，i jack off during flatline
 
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Sangiha

Sangiha

Member
Hey man,

You are 22 and healthy. To me its obvious that you are suffering from porn addiction and PIED.
Forget about the pills. You dont need them and they will only confuse you during your recovery. The issue is in your brain not your penis. If you stay on the right path, its a matter of time until you see the bright side. I was in your exact situation and i’ve been on this journey for about half a year now. A lot of ups and some downs but over all I have made in

Feel free to check out my story - i think it will help make you feel better and motivate you in your journey. here is the link: https://forum.rebootnation.org/index.php?threads/20434/#post-214174

Now i will try my best to answer all of your questions in the next post :)
 
Sangiha

Sangiha

Member
1. Is desensitization caused by everyday unhappiness and lack of sexual desire? How long can the happiness of childhood be restored?

its the opposite. Feeling numb, sad, and lifeless penis are all results of desensitization in your dopamine reward system. Porn has burned off too many of your dopamine receptors over the years so everyday activities that are supposed to give you a dopamine boosts are not enough to make you happy. So you lose your motivation, happiness, sexual desires, and just the ability to feel overall. Once you recover the dopamine receptors by staying away from porn, you will feel like how you did before. The time it takes is different for everyone but for people around our age, you will start seeing progress around 3-6 months of hardmode. No orgasms, no porn, and try avoiding things that will release too much dopamine such as gambling, drugs, sex, and video games.


2. Is the lack of libido due to the fact that your dopamine threshold is so high that you can't turn on when you upgrade to porn?

yes nothing can match the amount of dopamine released when watching multiple tabs of hardcore porn.

3. Can I be restored? How long will it take? I have a girlfriend and how should I have sex with her?

you definitely will be restored. But if you keep going back to porn this will become an endless cycle you never escape. Having a girlfriend is tough during this time because its best not to have sex of orgasm for the first few months. But cuddling, kissing, and just hanging out will her will help rewire your brain away from porn and to real life girl. It is best to have a conversation with her and let her know what you are going through and that you really need to be healed for yourself and for her. She will most likely support you, whether she understands you or not.


4. Is this permanent damage to the brain? Does it change the structure of the brain.

Not a permanent damage. Your brain can return to how it was before. But i believe that if we go back to watching porn, our brain will quickly go back to the old ways. So few relapses and we might find ourselves back in a deep flatline.


5. Are we in a situation where dopamine levels are too low? and will this leads to Parkinson's disease?

you’re thinking way too much. Dont worry… you wont have parkinson’s disease haha


6.Quit masturbating morning wood how long to come back?

Whats more important is not watching porn.This is different for everyone but you should see progress if you stay strong for 3-6 months.
I started getting my MW back around 80-100 days. Do not expect them to come back 100% at once. They will slowly but surely come back as you get out of flatline. You might have another flatline where u lose MW again but it will come back again. Once you have them 100% consistently its a great sign that you are almost healed.

i hope this helped you a little bit. All you got to do now is stay strong and away from the nasty shit on the internet. Best of luck ;)
 
Fappy

Fappy

Respected Member
dont jerk off during a flatline, itll just make you even more exhausted. a flatline is your body telling you to take a rest, and your trying to slap some life back into it? bad idea. just let your cock shrink and die for a while, it deserves it. itll be ressurected in time, like a sexy rock-hard jesus back from the dead! so just give it some time
 
amaze99

amaze99

Member
Sangiha said:
Hey man,

You are 22 and healthy. To me its obvious that you are suffering from porn addiction and PIED.
Forget about the pills. You dont need them and they will only confuse you during your recovery. The issue is in your brain not your penis. If you stay on the right path, its a matter of time until you see the bright side. I was in your exact situation and i’ve been on this journey for about half a year now. A lot of ups and some downs but over all I have made in

Feel free to check out my story - i think it will help make you feel better and motivate you in your journey. here is the link: https://forum.rebootnation.org/index.php?threads/20434/#post-214174

Now i will try my best to answer all of your questions in the next post :)
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Thank you for giving me a lot of confidence in my reply.
  • I am in the end of July August early restore morning wood ， How long did it take to recover, but I relapsed in the middle of August, and I was really upset about my mistake, and I made a mistake and I regretted it, and I was already in the second hard mode
 
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amaze99

amaze99

Member
Fappy said:
dont jerk off during a flatline, itll just make you even more exhausted. a flatline is your body telling you to take a rest, and your trying to slap some life back into it? bad idea. just let your cock shrink and die for a while, it deserves it. itll be ressurected in time, like a sexy rock-hard jesus back from the dead! so just give it some time
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Thanks for your advice. Maybe I have been in the flat line and masturbating on the flat line, so I can't get out，if i go out of flatline what can i feel?
 
amaze99

amaze99

Member
Sangiha said:
Hey man,

You are 22 and healthy. To me its obvious that you are suffering from porn addiction and PIED.
Forget about the pills. You dont need them and they will only confuse you during your recovery. The issue is in your brain not your penis. If you stay on the right path, its a matter of time until you see the bright side. I was in your exact situation and i’ve been on this journey for about half a year now. A lot of ups and some downs but over all I have made in

Feel free to check out my story - i think it will help make you feel better and motivate you in your journey. here is the link: https://forum.rebootnation.org/index.php?threads/20434/#post-214174

Now i will try my best to answer all of your questions in the next post :)
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i have read your story it inspired me ！
 
amaze99

amaze99

Member
Fappy said:
dont jerk off during a flatline, itll just make you even more exhausted. a flatline is your body telling you to take a rest, and your trying to slap some life back into it? bad idea. just let your cock shrink and die for a while, it deserves it. itll be ressurected in time, like a sexy rock-hard jesus back from the dead! so just give it some time
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  • Hey, mister, do you know why too many orgasms can cause MW to disappear，my mw back at early of the month but i made mistake to test to watch porn
 
amaze99

amaze99

Member
Sangiha said:
1. Is desensitization caused by everyday unhappiness and lack of sexual desire? How long can the happiness of childhood be restored?

its the opposite. Feeling numb, sad, and lifeless penis are all results of desensitization in your dopamine reward system. Porn has burned off too many of your dopamine receptors over the years so everyday activities that are supposed to give you a dopamine boosts are not enough to make you happy. So you lose your motivation, happiness, sexual desires, and just the ability to feel overall. Once you recover the dopamine receptors by staying away from porn, you will feel like how you did before. The time it takes is different for everyone but for people around our age, you will start seeing progress around 3-6 months of hardmode. No orgasms, no porn, and try avoiding things that will release too much dopamine such as gambling, drugs, sex, and video games.


2. Is the lack of libido due to the fact that your dopamine threshold is so high that you can't turn on when you upgrade to porn?

yes nothing can match the amount of dopamine released when watching multiple tabs of hardcore porn.

3. Can I be restored? How long will it take? I have a girlfriend and how should I have sex with her?

you definitely will be restored. But if you keep going back to porn this will become an endless cycle you never escape. Having a girlfriend is tough during this time because its best not to have sex of orgasm for the first few months. But cuddling, kissing, and just hanging out will her will help rewire your brain away from porn and to real life girl. It is best to have a conversation with her and let her know what you are going through and that you really need to be healed for yourself and for her. She will most likely support you, whether she understands you or not.


4. Is this permanent damage to the brain? Does it change the structure of the brain.

Not a permanent damage. Your brain can return to how it was before. But i believe that if we go back to watching porn, our brain will quickly go back to the old ways. So few relapses and we might find ourselves back in a deep flatline.


5. Are we in a situation where dopamine levels are too low? and will this leads to Parkinson's disease?

you’re thinking way too much. Dont worry… you wont have parkinson’s disease haha


6.Quit masturbating morning wood how long to come back?

Whats more important is not watching porn.This is different for everyone but you should see progress if you stay strong for 3-6 months.
I started getting my MW back around 80-100 days. Do not expect them to come back 100% at once. They will slowly but surely come back as you get out of flatline. You might have another flatline where u lose MW again but it will come back again. Once you have them 100% consistently its a great sign that you are almost healed.

i hope this helped you a little bit. All you got to do now is stay strong and away from the nasty shit on the internet. Best of luck ;)
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My pied is when I watch porn I use my hands to keep an erection is that normal?
 
C

Cmax

Member
amaze99 said:
Hello everyone, I am new to this forum and I have been observing this forum for a while. I have the same account in the NOFAP community
Let me introduce myself first
I watched porn when I was 12 or 13 years old, until 2016 when I was in a relationship. I could easily kiss and touch my girlfriend and have a fantasy erection. In 2018, I had sex successfully, and it became easy and hard! Very good at sex
But all the while I've been watching porn and upgrading hardcore content
(I have masturbated while watching porn from 2012 to 2021. Because of the frequency of masturbation, I have rarely had morning wood, hardly ever. I had morning wood when I was a kid.
Things get worse, my mood gets worse, my libido goes down, my penis feels dead
Having sex with a girlfriend requires masturbation with a death grip
2020 is a bad year and I need pills to help me get an erection, but PILLS works for me and I can get an erection with just about 0.01mg pills,
2021 I am already 22 years old and I want to live a good life with my girlfriend in the future. I really don't want to give up her. Now I am depressed every day without sexual desire and can't feel happy
So, realizing my problem, I started NOFAP on May 28, 2021. On June 12, my girlfriend and I had several orgasms with the help of pills, which is still hardcore mode to this day
Who can give me good advice and help? I hope the seniors can guide me. I am very anxious and depressed now.
For a few years before NOFAP I felt like I was in a flat line due to masturbation and watching porn, low libido, no motivation, no pleasure, numbness of mind, loss of connection between brain and penis
Here are some questions I would like someone to answer about Pied
1. Is desensitization caused by everyday unhappiness and lack of sexual desire? How long can the happiness of childhood be restored
2. Is the lack of libido due to the fact that your dopamine threshold is so high that you can't turn on when you upgrade to porn
Can I be restored? How long will it take? I have a girlfriend and how should I have sex with her?
4. Is this permanent damage to the brain? Does it change the structure of the brain
5. Are we in a situation where dopamine levels are too low? and will this leads to Parkinson's disease?
6.Quit masturbating morning wood how long to come back
English is not my mother language forgive for my grammar, thank you all, lots of love
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Read the book your brain on porn and all your questions will be answered.....I used surge a sex enhancement shot! It worked for a while but the effects of the liquid stopped!......you are young....reboot and get natural erections!
 
amaze99

amaze99

Member
Cmax said:
Read the book your brain on porn and all your questions will be answered.....I used surge a sex enhancement shot! It worked for a while but the effects of the liquid stopped!......you are young....reboot and get natural erections!
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I've talked everything over with my girlfriend and I'm ready for the long hard mode, thank you，good luck to you and me
 
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Cmax

Member
amaze99 said:
I've talked everything over with my girlfriend and I'm ready for the long hard mode, thank you，good luck to you and me
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Very cool.....my wife has been great also....day 84 for me......the journey is worth it! Porn hurt our body and mind and it's time to heal! Cheers
 
amaze99

amaze99

Member
Good news made love with my girlfriend today, three times, very successful, but still need to improve, the best way is never to return to porn
 
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