No reaction to porn

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I have been on reboot on and off for more than a year , I am 24 years old.
I started it on 8 June, 2020, it happened when suddenly one night I couldn't get erection to porn. ( I was used to fap everyday, with long edging sessions )
But i relapsed on porn until October 2020, After that I did not watched any porn, till today.

I would say I Have seen incredible benefits on non sexual side, tough i have read some sexual stuff.

Mind

1. My Anxiety is gone
2. My depression is gone
3. My positive energy has increased
4. My Concentration is better ( a lot better ).

Physical benefits

1. Energy is certainly high.
2. Workouts became very regular.
3. I have certainly lost fat on stomach. ( i already had low fat )
4. My chest is hairy.
5. I haven't build much muscle but certainly not lost any ( as i do a lot a yoga )
6. I have lost face fat.
7. overall i think i look a lot better and younger ( i have received compliments )

Sexual side.

1. Initially I had no libido at all for about 30 days or so, penis was shrunk.
2. After that I have been in waves of libido and no libido.

Goods.
1. Initially i was not able to masturbate in my own, it continued for long time, today I am able to masturbate on my own ( though i don't like it much now and i am thinking of leaving it ).
2. Masturbation when i do is mostly on touch, and when i gets hard, its pretty sensitive.
3. My morning wood comes regularly, ( not daily ) but its pretty consistent + Night erections are more consistent.


Bad

1. My libido is not that much as it used to be with porn, like my desire to masturbate is less ( like once a week, I actually feel its useless to masturbate )
2. ( I don't know if its good or bad ).


Things I don't know is good or bad
  1. Also my desire to masturbate is lesser.
  2. I get nightfall's after one week of abstinence pretty consistently.
  3. Today I saw some nude pics and also a porn video, but I was not a little bit excited at all, nothing happened to me.

I am a virgin, so i haven't tasted sex yet, I have never been intimate with a women, Though I often get my eyes on women like a laser beam, but I don't feel any rush or erection ( am i supposed to feel like that ) , I my eyes do get hooked at them ( i am not creepy and stop doing it immediately ), there is something that they have that men don't have.

I don't know sexually i am healed or not, that is the main problem right now.
Also Sometimes I think do i have low testosterone ? But I don't have much symptoms ( I am quite happy most of the times, I am fit, pretty decent body, not fat, not anxious, confident, not depressed, grow full beard, just low libido is my problem ).

I actually desire a meaningful relation( which i never understood this when I was watching porn and fapping, I have actually hurt some women in my life by not giving them the importance I should have given )

I do want a woman i my life, I don't know how about how can our be the sexual life.
 

Fappy

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avoid porn and porn subs, the fact that you have no desire for this is great.
wank when you want to wank, simple as that. dont stress over the days in between wanking, like its sometihng you NEED to do every X amount of days. if you think like that wanking becomes a compulsion - and we all know how the world feels about compulsive masturbators!
other than that, id say you sound like a pretty normal 24 year old man.
 

hope 2021

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avoid porn and porn subs, the fact that you have no desire for this is great.
wank when you want to wank, simple as that. dont stress over the days in between wanking, like its sometihng you NEED to do every X amount of days. if you think like that wanking becomes a compulsion - and we all know how the world feels about compulsive masturbators!
other than that, id say you sound like a pretty normal 24 year old man.
thank you for your suggestion
 
thank you for your suggestion
Hey question i’m the same as u one afternoon i just couldn’t get up to porn and i’ve quit for 4 months now i haven’t tried porn or masturbation but when i scroll and see a girl bikini pick i start to grow but as soon as i see it i scroll. I’m 15 years old btw how long did it take for u to be able to masturbate and when u nasturbate on ur own is it full erections?
 

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Hey question i’m the same as u one afternoon i just couldn’t get up to porn and i’ve quit for 4 months now i haven’t tried porn or masturbation but when i scroll and see a girl bikini pick i start to grow but as soon as i see it i scroll. I’m 15 years old btw how long did it take for u to be able to masturbate and when u nasturbate on ur own is it full erections?

it took me 7 months of no porn and occasional masturbation.

Yes now i can get full erections just form sensations but i have to be very slow otherwise it doesnot happens.

I recommend you masturbate less, as you are doing, you will recover better.
 
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