I’m a 33yo dude, started my career in jackin at like 10 with some nudie magazines me and some friends found in the woods. Then obviously moved onto internet porn as I grew up in the digital era.
On average I’d at least do it 3 times a day, and when I finally had sex at 20 I couldn’t finish quickly. My then girlfriend was able to finish me by hand like twice after 20 minutes, and the first time we rawdogged was the only time in my life I ever prematurely ejaculated. It was because my brain didn’t expect that sensation but after it got used to it, it was back to the 20 min plus routine. It always get good but my stupid brain just wouldn’t send the signal to wrap it up. And only one time ever via oral did it feel like crazy stimulation. But for that one time, it was an anomaly because it never felt like that before or after that one time.
I had deduced that my overhand grip was desensitizing me so I switched back to the standard grip and was able to finish every time with the girlfriend after that. Still took longer than it should of, but via rawdog I’d always finish. That girlfriend was lazy so I never got to truly find out if that grip change effected oral or handjobs.
Somewhere over the years I had switched back to overhand and it kinda put me back in the original situation. I have no problem getting it up but my brain just gets bored easily and I fee like everything feels only half as good as it should.
I started smoking weed in my late 20s and discovered different strains had very interesting effects on erection quality. Some were boner killers, that took like 3 days to go back to normal and some caused diamond cutting erections. But it was still a mixed bag because the delayed ejaculation would cause it to prevent a efficient finish. Wasn’t a bad feeling to be honest but definitely weird.
I don’t know how severe my case is, but obviously have some form of porn addiction. I’ll have like 50 tabs open, just skimming amateur videos until I get bored quickly and move onto the next tab. Sometimes I finish in 15 mins but other times its 40. I can rarely watch the same video twice because like a tv show episode, my brains like I saw this already. Though my brain never needed anything heavier and heavier, just new or niche.
Right now I’m on day 6 of nofap, it’s going pretty well. My focus and willpower is kinda strong at the moment because I’m dialed in the gym and diet. Putting that extra motivation and downtime into watching fitness form videos and doing product research on a online business me and a friend are trying to start.
Obviously my goal is to reboot my brain so my mind and body sensitivity is where it should be and things feel as good as they should. But for question purposes, say after 90 days, on my cheat meal night I like to relax with some good food, a drink and some weed. As long as I don’t watch porn or use the grip that did me in, I should be fine to jack it to mental thoughts without losing a dumb amount of progress right? (Obviously if I have a lady in my life I won’t need to)
On average I’d at least do it 3 times a day, and when I finally had sex at 20 I couldn’t finish quickly. My then girlfriend was able to finish me by hand like twice after 20 minutes, and the first time we rawdogged was the only time in my life I ever prematurely ejaculated. It was because my brain didn’t expect that sensation but after it got used to it, it was back to the 20 min plus routine. It always get good but my stupid brain just wouldn’t send the signal to wrap it up. And only one time ever via oral did it feel like crazy stimulation. But for that one time, it was an anomaly because it never felt like that before or after that one time.
I had deduced that my overhand grip was desensitizing me so I switched back to the standard grip and was able to finish every time with the girlfriend after that. Still took longer than it should of, but via rawdog I’d always finish. That girlfriend was lazy so I never got to truly find out if that grip change effected oral or handjobs.
Somewhere over the years I had switched back to overhand and it kinda put me back in the original situation. I have no problem getting it up but my brain just gets bored easily and I fee like everything feels only half as good as it should.
I started smoking weed in my late 20s and discovered different strains had very interesting effects on erection quality. Some were boner killers, that took like 3 days to go back to normal and some caused diamond cutting erections. But it was still a mixed bag because the delayed ejaculation would cause it to prevent a efficient finish. Wasn’t a bad feeling to be honest but definitely weird.
I don’t know how severe my case is, but obviously have some form of porn addiction. I’ll have like 50 tabs open, just skimming amateur videos until I get bored quickly and move onto the next tab. Sometimes I finish in 15 mins but other times its 40. I can rarely watch the same video twice because like a tv show episode, my brains like I saw this already. Though my brain never needed anything heavier and heavier, just new or niche.
Right now I’m on day 6 of nofap, it’s going pretty well. My focus and willpower is kinda strong at the moment because I’m dialed in the gym and diet. Putting that extra motivation and downtime into watching fitness form videos and doing product research on a online business me and a friend are trying to start.
Obviously my goal is to reboot my brain so my mind and body sensitivity is where it should be and things feel as good as they should. But for question purposes, say after 90 days, on my cheat meal night I like to relax with some good food, a drink and some weed. As long as I don’t watch porn or use the grip that did me in, I should be fine to jack it to mental thoughts without losing a dumb amount of progress right? (Obviously if I have a lady in my life I won’t need to)
