Journey begins, general questions

Biz

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Hi posters,

new day, yesterday I brought the girl to sleepover and I had no problems performing and it was a good feeling. The thing is you still feel the urge for P. It is a hard thing to overcome, I’m bored so you want to still see it, even though you feel the results. I can def feel the removal of subs, but take it day by day, cuz it does feel good again to somewhat feel confident in performing. For me it’s more than quitting porn, it’s a test in sobriety and focus and discipline.
 

Biz

Member
Hi fellow rebooters,

just checking in, I’ve made progress and feel great where I’m at. I have a plan moving forward which works for me, it’s difficult to stay consistent, but my body has been treating me amazingly as of now. I know I’m going to stumble but everyday I try to stay consistent, I feel like I’m at a high point with my progress.
 

Biz

Member
At this point I’m not worried about performance, if I stick to averting the things that trigger my brain to desire fake pixels over the real thing. MWs consistent, able to go a couple times a night, enjoy each experience, I haven’t tried a back2back night even though I thought I would last week, I have gone one day then no day then see the girl again, and things went fine. For me a noted point of feeling healthy is when I can M with no stimulus but hand.

I was able to do this easily in like minutes this morning, I may invite a girl tonight and see how my boy would behave.
 

Biz

Member
Hi rebooters,

just an update I’m feeling strong with no slip ups, I’ll keep going even though it gets hard then the cortex synapses start running ablaze. Take care I feel better, and become more and more happy with the man I am
 

Biz

Member
Hey guys

I haven’t been here in a while but thought I would hit the community with some ideas I learned. I got a girl and think I’ve been successful in the reboot and just want to share with ppl who think it’s some wild mountain. I experienced my fair share of failures and because this is relatively new condition I want to share what I discovered. First off I always have had access to women and this became an issue when I was sleeping with women I wanted to sleep with and I wouldn’t perform. I tried numerous methods and this is what worked FOR ME.

Additionally, I don’t think my case was the strongest, but if I had viewed too much erotic materials I wouldn’t respond. Then it would double down by being scared to produce. I noticed that if I didn’t look at porn or escort ads I’d be ok with hinge tinder and dating apps not contributing to my deficiency. I guess My brain didn’t see these apps as pornographic and the opportunity to meeting them was far different association on my brain. By divorcing ideas my brain associated was as pornographic was enough for my libido to come roaring back.

secondly the M, I stopped playing with myself with P present as my first move and haven’t since I began this quest. I have found that M isn’t bad even with forming ideas, the connection is made through my eyes. I am able to go multi times a day with women, have my confidence, and all I do is avoid what my brain considered as P. I can M as frequently as I want to ideas, and perform to women. I went down a lot of different paths to find what worked for me and this worked for me. I hope this helps, and I will post occasionally here too as this website helped a lot when I was low. Good luck ppl I remember how low I got, but stick with it my guys, life is beautiful.
 
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