Today I'm frustrated, my concentration is all over the map, I don't want porn, I want my wife. I don't want to pleasure myself, even though that would offer a temporary measure of relief I know it isn't what or who I want. Feeling this way makes feel selfish, like if I was a more mature man in better control of my body this wouldn't be an issue. Maybe thats true, maybe all the years of gratifying myself whenever and however I wanted is why I feel like I do today. Its the kind of feeling that I'd like to break some stuff. Roar! I need my bride... and nothing else will do. My mind is to clouded to go any deeper. Roar! I know this time of testing will pass and venting offers some relief. It is what it is.
I've read about guys, couples whose wives only allow 1 a month, 1 a quarter or even longer, I weep for those men, it seems like wasted time to me, to us. We have limited time in this life, youth passes quickly before the aches and pains of life set in. Why waste such a precious gift, waste such an opportunity saying, "no". Its difficult and frustrating enough just working that time in with regular life/health issues and hurdles, without just saying no for the hell of it. We burned for each other, we still do, but dammit. I need a vacation, the last really good one we took was in 2000. Today is loud in my head, but i'll get through. The urgency will diminish and my concentration will return.
Once more unto the breech, Dear Friends! Once more..
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