Breaking the Shackles

King Leer

Active Member
It seems many people on this site are quitting because they have come down with porn induced e.d. Fortunately I have never had to deal with this issue. I was curious though has anyone else decided to quit porn simply because they were sick of the slavery to it? I wonder how it would be different for me if I had developed e.d. Would my resolve be stronger then? I am also an alcoholic but never decided to quit until it got really bad before then I had no issue with being a slave to alcohol. But being dependent on porn for me somehow just felt so much more oppressive. Has anyone else ever felt that?
 
I have decided to quit precisely because of that. I am simply sick of it, I think I hate, even detest this modern porn industry and how it hijacks men`s souls (nothing mystical I mean by that), how it can ruin your focus, healthy sexuality, mind, life`s taste and potential etc.

Man I have no such problems like ED or DE, my sex drive towards real girls are high and my overall sexual health is okay. But it matters not in this case. My psychological health wasn`t good all these years due to this poison, but even that matters little. What matters most here is simply the fact that all that artificial stimulation is terribly wrong for humanity. It`s unnormal, unhealthy, unworthy, that`s simply not how we must live. And I think "must" is actually the right word here. Maybe that`s bold enough but that`s my deepest and the most honest insight. Even by itself it gives me strength to carry on.

So I think quitting just for fixing ED or something like that is fundamentally wrong reason. It is all about much more serious things - being a man, being real, not about whether your penis is working or not. Again, I know this is kinda a bold statement, but that`s simply how I see it.
 

King Leer

Active Member
I have decided to quit precisely because of that. I am simply sick of it, I think I hate, even detest this modern porn industry and how it hijacks men`s souls (nothing mystical I mean by that), how it can ruin your focus, healthy sexuality, mind, life`s taste and potential etc.

Man I have no such problems like ED or DE, my sex drive towards real girls are high and my overall sexual health is okay. But it matters not in this case. My psychological health wasn`t good all these years due to this poison, but even that matters little. What matters most here is simply the fact that all that artificial stimulation is terribly wrong for humanity. It`s unnormal, unhealthy, unworthy, that`s simply not how we must live. And I think "must" is actually the right word here. Maybe that`s bold enough but that`s my deepest and the most honest insight. Even by itself it gives me strength to carry on.

So I think quitting just for fixing ED or something like that is fundamentally wrong reason. It is all about much more serious things - being a man, being real, not about whether your penis is working or not. Again, I know this is kinda a bold statement, but that`s simply how I see it.
Right of course I don't look down on guys who are quitting because of ED either. I know they have learned firsthand the havoc this unnatural habit creates. I really feel bad for them when I hear how long some have suffered with it. But yeah what a lame thing to be controlled by.
 

BoxeeT

New Member
It has been just 1 week for me. The most obvious facet so far has been time. As a married man with children, freetime is a valuable commodity. Instead of heading to the basement around 8-9PM to "rev myself up" while I waited for my wife to go to bed, I am more clear headed around that time. It was like any hour I had to myself was somehow best used for PMO.

When I would tell people that I do not have the time for something, that meant that any freetime I may have has already been spoken for whether I cared to admit it or not.
 
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