67 days and counting

67 days no PMO which feels like a lifetime. Reading the success stories on this forum has kept me from reverting back. I can’t wait to go back to normal sex with my wife. Starting to experience daily morning woods but its not at full hardness yet. I hope to get to the next level of hardness soon so I can get my love making confidence back. I will continue with the reboot process to surpass my initial 90 day target.
 

Cmax

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67 days no PMO which feels like a lifetime. Reading the success stories on this forum has kept me from reverting back. I can’t wait to go back to normal sex with my wife. Starting to experience daily morning woods but its not at full hardness yet. I hope to get to the next level of hardness soon so I can get my love making confidence back. I will continue with the reboot process to surpass my initial 90 day target.
Keep at it, rebooting works but it takes time to clear your mind of the porn visions! It happened to me when I had sex with my wife with a clear head....I'm not all the way back but I feel better....your confidence will come back! Stay strong!
 
Thanks for all of the advice. Its going to take awhile to recover from the porn visions. Its getting easier with time but it still crosses my mind occasionally. Looking forward to getting my confidence back and putting this behind me. Day 70 no PMO.
 
Day 72. Morning wood is getting stronger which is a positive sign and motivation to keep going. Had a hot dream last night without any porn images. Next I have to increase intimate time with my wife even if there isn’t any penetration yet. I have to get use to physical touch without masturbation or watching porn. Every week not having sex with my wife is mentally tough. She has been patient which is good but I want us to connect sexual. I have to continue with the process and hope for the best.
 

Cmax

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I'm right there with you....day 56.....had sex with my wife on vacation 10 days ago without visions of porn ,without supplements and with a hard erection all for the 1st time in years!.....I've still got a ways to go but I'm on my way....you will too....the connection for both of us will comeback!
 
I'm right there with you....day 56.....had sex with my wife on vacation 10 days ago without visions of porn ,without supplements and with a hard erection all for the 1st time in years!.....I've still got a ways to go but I'm on my way....you will too....the connection for both of us will comeback!
Do you routinely have intimate time with your wife to increase the possibility of having sex? I’m stuck in avoidance mode and need to slowly get back to foreplay and sex. I feel like I’m coming out of flatline so there is a greater chance of having sex.
 

Cmax

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Yes I've started with random long passionate kisses....I am starting to feel that spark again! Just be honest and talk it out with her! Tell her what is going on with your body and go from there......
 
I had a high libido prior to reboot but was wasting it with masturbation and porn. Trying to break this routine has been challenging but for the first time since I’ve been married I haven’t PMO for 72 days. Porn at the time offset the times I wasn’t having sex and was a stress reliever. Now I exercise routinely and have a less stressful job. I feel like I’m in the best position now for positive changes especially once this is behind me.
 
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