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Joe Smith

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I am new to this page and just need someone to talk and tell my story too please. I’m at an all time low in my life.
 

Joe Smith

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Hi mate, I failed on day 64, last Friday, had my first ever wet dream Saturday night, just tried to have sex today and couldn’t get erection and came after 1 minute with a soft penis. I am in Melbourne in hard lockdown and I live alone. All my family are in Scotland. This is crushing me.
 

Ziggy116

Member
Hang in there bud... I'm very early in this but determined to do it..I have to...I want me back...we can do it!!!
 

Fappy

Respected Member
hey mate,
i dont think a wet dream is a relapse. you have no control over that, unlike when you choose to look at porn. a wet dream is not a relapse, even if you are doing hard mode. 64 days is very good! dont worry about the floppy cock and premature jizzing, thats just your body telling you it needs more time to recover.
stick around this forum and ask anything you want!
 

Joe Smith

Member
hey mate,
i dont think a wet dream is a relapse. you have no control over that, unlike when you choose to look at porn. a wet dream is not a relapse, even if you are doing hard mode. 64 days is very good! dont worry about the floppy cock and premature jizzing, thats just your body telling you it needs more time to recover.
stick around this forum and ask anything you want!
Thanks a lot mate it makes me feel better. Would you suggest to carry on with nofap now until I get my libido and MW back? Thankyou
 

Ziggy116

Member
I mean with this journey! What stage are you at? How are you feeling?
I'm only on day 16 but feeling good about it... Not depressed or anything..I have had morning wood every morning of my life and that has not changed...I have not masturbated at all since I've started this... Just BJ's from my partner which I've cut back from like maybe 5 a week to only 1 or 2. I'm determined to beat this...I can say I already don't think about porn as often. If I do I just try to think of something else. Hang in there, I do honestly believe the hard work will be worth it at some point.
 

Fappy

Respected Member
Thanks a lot mate it makes me feel better. Would you suggest to carry on with nofap now until I get my libido and MW back? Thankyou
I would suggest you carry on with nofap until you feel really good about things, and until you stop worrying about things like libido and MW, when those things dont even matter and you feel great, youre done!
 

Joe Smith

Member
I'm only on day 16 but feeling good about it... Not depressed or anything..I have had morning wood every morning of my life and that has not changed...I have not masturbated at all since I've started this... Just BJ's from my partner which I've cut back from like maybe 5 a week to only 1 or 2. I'm determined to beat this...I can say I already don't think about porn as often. If I do I just try to think of something else. Hang in there, I do honestly believe the hard work will be worth it at some point.
That’s good that you have MW and libido and can have oral sex. I guess you won’t need as long as I do to recover. I will stay the course and carry on with nofap because really I don’t have any other choice, it really is now or never
 

Joe Smith

Member
I would suggest you carry on with nofap until you feel really good about things, and until you stop worrying about things like libido and MW, when those things dont even matter and you feel great, youre done!
Thankyou I will do that I haven’t masturbated since my relapse (it was without porn) and I get abojt 70% erections during the night but not when I wake up
 

Jlied

Member
I am new to this page and just need someone to talk and tell my story too please. I’m at an all time low in my life.
Hi Joe, I know I’m a bit late to your post but I’d be happy to talk with you and listen to your story and the emotions you are feeling. If you want to send me a private message I’d be happy to read it.
 
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