I'm trying so hard to quit

Ziggy116

Member
Day 15... No porn... No PMO... No masturbation at all... And only 1 bj from my partner this week.. Most days MW is my only erection of the day and my desire just isn't there... My partner loves to take care of my mw most mornings but this week I only left it happen once, which was yesterday, and I must say I almost lost my mind...I guess my concern is will it hinder my reboot by letting this happen? Is having an"O" with my partner ok? It's very hard for me to go more than 5 days without ejaculating..I just start to ache..I read on here people going months without...I just don't know how you can do that... Any feed back would be appreciated... I'm so glad I found this forum.
 

Fappy

Respected Member
hi
congrats on the 15 days of no PMO. thats a long time!
ive always been one to subscribe to the idea of rebooting with a parter (unless you are going hardmode, which i didnt). it helps to rewire the brain to a real person when for so long it has only been able to find satisfaction with pixels on a screen. but dont overdo it, so dont pressure your partner into scoffing on your cock or sex just because you want to look at porn or get an urge!
the goal is to unfuck your brain, and rebooting with a partner can really help to speed up the process i found.
 

Ziggy116

Member
hi
congrats on the 15 days of no PMO. thats a long time!
ive always been one to subscribe to the idea of rebooting with a parter (unless you are going hardmode, which i didnt). it helps to rewire the brain to a real person when for so long it has only been able to find satisfaction with pixels on a screen. but dont overdo it, so dont pressure your partner into scoffing on your cock or sex just because you want to look at porn or get an urge!
the goal is to unfuck your brain, and rebooting with a partner can really help to speed up the process i found.
Fappy...Thank you and thank you for the response... I'm trying to not over do it... I've cut things back considerably to maybe only once or twice a week...I actually find if I "O" I have less urges to watch porn..idk.. This is all so confusing... But I'm determined to beat this (no pun intended). I'll keep plugging away... Day 16 today... I've deleted all my vids and pics... Only social media I use is FB... and that does nothing for me sexually. Thanks again for your response.
 
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