Help me please...suggest your experience

Prakash

Member
I m from India.my english is weak so please compromise.....my age 26. I am doing masturbation since I was 13.and masturbate to porn since i was 18 ... maximum time I watch low quality video Indian sex video they are hidden video by cheating its mean not high internet quality.......watching porn only in my smart phone......I have had sex three or four times so far with loose penis 60 to 70% erect. At the age of 22. after that i never have sex....and faced ed from 22..my PMO is not daily basis but with in 3 days some time in 7 days but when i m sitting for watching porn its time 3 to 4 hours continue watching..different different so many video i think its 70 to 100 video watching in one setting...And during this setting I used to masturbate at least four to five times There is no erection in the penis at all on thinking and seeing. Even after watching porn, the penis does not get erect until I touch the penis for a long time For some time, there is complete erection in the penis at once. Then there is less erection......I showed the doctor he did a lot of tests and He gave a psychological reason....now i didn't have any gf.....I don't have any system to check and have sex right now...in india very deficult to get gf and any type of sexual facility......... I have completed my research. But Due to poor English I could not understand some things. last year august 2020 I went on strike for the first 4 months with out PMO and then got relapse .then 6 months doing pmo then went on strike for 45 days and then replace doing pmo for 1 month ........ Again i m on the way the day is 35 (without any PMO and touching my penis) sometimes morning wood is loose <50%It happens all the time whether I should stay on Nofap or not...... But this time in this strike, I am not touching the penis at all.. ... Earlier, whenever I was on strike, I used to do penis massage (gently without any organism and moving penis by smoothly) for 5 to 8 minutes in the morning or evening.....
... I think my recovery will be very late...
I want to ask you
1. whether at the time of recovery, massage the penis or touch a little. Can cause delays recovery ?
2.Is it necessary to have sex to recover or to have a partner?
3.How long will it take for my recovery?
4.Could there be another reason for my erectile dysfunction?

Please share your suggestions and experiences🙏 I am very upset.
 

Chrisaaa7

Member
Hey man I can try to give my opinions on your questions.
1) I can’t say for sure but I think it’s best not to give your penis a massage. I think you should not touch it unless your in the shower or cleaning it.
2) it is not necessary to have sex or be with a partner. I think it helps to have a girlfriend where you can kiss and cuddle and things like that, I think it helps me but no it’s not necessary, it just may make recovery faster.
3) everyone’s recovery is different, there is no way to really predict when someone will recover.
4) there may be a health condition but you said that you checked with your doctor so you shouldn’t worry about that. The only other thing that it may be is anxiety but that will go away slowly with time. Once you get a girlfriend it is best to go slow and not rush into sex until you are comfortable so the anxiety is less
 

Prakash

Member
Hey man I can try to give my opinions on your questions.
1) I can’t say for sure but I think it’s best not to give your penis a massage. I think you should not touch it unless your in the shower or cleaning it.
2) it is not necessary to have sex or be with a partner. I think it helps to have a girlfriend where you can kiss and cuddle and things like that, I think it helps me but no it’s not necessary, it just may make recovery faster.
3) everyone’s recovery is different, there is no way to really predict when someone will recover.
4) there may be a health condition but you said that you checked with your doctor so you shouldn’t worry about that. The only other thing that it may be is anxiety but that will go away slowly with time. Once you get a girlfriend it is best to go slow and not rush into sex until you are comfortable so the a

Hey man I can try to give my opinions on your questions.
1) I can’t say for sure but I think it’s best not to give your penis a massage. I think you should not touch it unless your in the shower or cleaning it.
2) it is not necessary to have sex or be with a partner. I think it helps to have a girlfriend where you can kiss and cuddle and things like that, I think it helps me but no it’s not necessary, it just may make recovery faster.
3) everyone’s recovery is different, there is no way to really predict when someone will recover.
4) there may be a health condition but you said that you checked with your doctor so you shouldn’t worry about that. The only other thing that it may be is anxiety but that will go away slowly with time. Once you get a girlfriend it is best to go slow and not rush into sex until you are comfortable so the anxiety is less
Thank you dear man you give me some courage
 

Fappy

Respected Member
I want to ask you
1. whether at the time of recovery, massage the penis or touch a little. Can cause delays recovery ?
2.Is it necessary to have sex to recover or to have a partner?
3.How long will it take for my recovery?
4.Could there be another reason for my erectile dysfunction?
Hi, and welcome. Well done for the porn-free streak! It does get easier as you go along so try not to be too stressed.
as for your questions:
1. for me, this didnt adversely impact on my reboot. in some ways it even helped me. as long as you are not stimulating youself to any porn or porn subsitutes, ANY artificial stimuli for that matter, then its fine in my experience. but it depends on how you feel about it, if you dont think its a good idea then it probably isnt.
2. not necessary, helpful but not at all necessary.
3. everyone is different. it depends on a lot of factors, such as how much you consumed porn prior, other symptoms you may be experiencing, etc. but what i can say is that you WILL start to see benefits of your progress in a few months. thats more or less guaranteed.
4. if you have no other health conditions which may give you the floppy cocks, then its more than likely its because of porn. escpecially given your history with it.

I know its shit at the start and it can get pretty depressing after a relapse, but you need to consider yourself lucky yu have found the way to fix it! a lot of men go through life not even knowing the cause of the problem, what a nightmare! Stick around this forum and get all the help you need and you will recover.
 

Maglue

Active Member
I didn't discover this problem until I'm 36...
Next year I'm going to be a fuicking machine... I promise...
And you are gona have to hear all about it lol...
Still nearly 100 days this year...
Heaps of ground work for 2022...
 

Prakash

Member
Hi, and welcome. Well done for the porn-free streak! It does get easier as you go along so try not to be too stressed.
as for your questions:
1. for me, this didnt adversely impact on my reboot. in some ways it even helped me. as long as you are not stimulating youself to any porn or porn subsitutes, ANY artificial stimuli for that matter, then its fine in my experience. but it depends on how you feel about it, if you dont think its a good idea then it probably isnt.
2. not necessary, helpful but not at all necessary.
3. everyone is different. it depends on a lot of factors, such as how much you consumed porn prior, other symptoms you may be experiencing, etc. but what i can say is that you WILL start to see benefits of your progress in a few months. thats more or less guaranteed.
4. if you have no other health conditions which may give you the floppy cocks, then its more than likely its because of porn. escpecially given your history with it.

I know its shit at the start and it can get pretty depressing after a relapse, but you need to consider yourself lucky yu have found the way to fix it! a lot of men go through life not even knowing the cause of the problem, what a nightmare! Stick around this forum and get all the help you need and you will recover.
Thanks you mam you give me some courage.... I'm stay at nofab until recovery
 

Prakash

Member
I didn't discover this problem until I'm 36...
Next year I'm going to be a fuicking machine... I promise...
And you are gona have to hear all about it lol...
Still nearly 100 days this year...
Heaps of ground work for 2022...
What's is your condition
 
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