Low sex drive

Ruthless

Member
I’ve been jacking off with hardcore porn for 6 years now. There was a yearn fo fuck every girl I set my eyes on. This is hard to explain but I try. Haven’t had sex in years since I took the short route. This year I realized I couldn’t keep a firm erection for penetrative sex and I lost a girl cos she concluded I was impotent. My world is crushing and I badly need help.
 

Ruthless

Member
Haven’t masturbated in almost 2 months and I’m confident I can go without it but my mind sometimes pushes me to watch if not porn any x rated content. Deactivated a few of my socials but for some reason the yearn for porn gets stronger and stronger
 

DLS184

Member
It’s totally normal Bro
You’re in mid season of rebooting. Your brain is rewiring and because of that, your brain sends impulse like “hey we’re at day 60 without porn.. when you want we can watch some clips, it’s ok ;)” and you have to be patient, because this trap is the biggest reason of relapses
 

DLS184

Member
I’m “just” at day 35 and got same problems
My mind is going crazy
I’m happy because I haven’t any cravings to watch porn, but society is a problem…
If you want, we can talk private ✌🏼
 

Fappy

Respected Member
yes dont get complacent now! youve done well to get this far so dont fuck it up by loking at porn. also avoid any porn substitutes or artificial stimuli that excites you sexually. its a dangerous thing to do because it could result in a relapse.
 

Ruthless

Member
It’s totally normal Bro
You’re in mid season of rebooting. Your brain is rewiring and because of that, your brain sends impulse like “hey we’re at day 60 without porn.. when you want we can watch some clips, it’s ok ;)” and you have to be patient, because this trap is the biggest reason of relapses
Hey, I just read your comments on my post and I’m so glad you did. I was watching some videos on fb just a while ago when I figured I was 50% hard. The yearn for PMO grew stronger and I almost had relapse but I got on here instead to read the success stories of others. That helped and I’ll be doing that on a regular. A week ago I had orgasm by Bj tho I couldn’t even get a 40% boner. Im scared I have both aied and pied. And im scared I won’t heal. I’ve struggled to go 2 months without M and a relapse is the last thing I need. Im so anxious and depressed cos I don’t even feel like a man anymore
 

DLS184

Member
Hey, I just read your comments on my post and I’m so glad you did. I was watching some videos on fb just a while ago when I figured I was 50% hard. The yearn for PMO grew stronger and I almost had relapse but I got on here instead to read the success stories of others. That helped and I’ll be doing that on a regular. A week ago I had orgasm by Bj tho I couldn’t even get a 40% boner. Im scared I have both aied and pied. And im scared I won’t heal. I’ve struggled to go 2 months without M and a relapse is the last thing I need. Im so anxious and depressed cos I don’t even feel like a man anymore
Bro, 40% is super
Most of the guys wrote that they can’t get a erection while they reviewing
And you even feel lust
Don’t looking after negative results… look after your achievements and enjoy these
 

Ruthless

Member
Today, I woke up with no boner, had to quit taking honey mixed with herbs so I could get erection. Decided to quit and let my mind and body heal in a natural manner. I get desires for sex or sexual activities which pushes me to PMO( I haven’t). I’ve read bout others talking bout M without porn and I think that’ll be helpful but I wouldn’t want to try that because I’ll do same tomorrow and the day after, then rb to where I started. I’m so frustrated and anxious bout my sex life since that’s all I can think about. Almost 70 days without M tho I watched a minute of porn that came up on my Twitter. Idk how long this process could take but the urge to PMO is so high every time tho I manage to get through each day but it sucks I can’t trust myself on this. Ive had similar experiences where I had a relapse because I thought I was only doing it once. I’m still anxious I can never have real sex and that seems to have much effect on me. What do I do?
 

Ruthless

Member
For no reason, I can’t keep my mind of sex. The urge gets stronger and stronger each day and I don’t trust myself to be able to do this.
 

DLS184

Member
Bro keep calm
70 days is a big achievement, don’t forget this
I’m “just” at day 40 and I feel the same… it’s a good sign, because you see your brain is recovering and “developed” own desire, which not controlled by porn
 

Ruthless

Member
I can’t stop my mind from thinking bout a relapse. I keep “a relapse is the road to recovery” in my head. I called a female friend over so I could have some company but I’m thinking bout sending her away so I can PMO or MO( I don’t want any of those anyway)
 

Ruthless

Member
It’s like I’ve made up my mind to have a relapse. This isn’t the first time feeling like this. Today I’ve tried everything just to keep myself from thinking bout sex or PMO but that sh!t stuck in my head
 

Ruthless

Member
I’ve reading through other journals and interacting with others on here but still no success. Rebooting isn’t so easy I guess.
 

Fappy

Respected Member
I can’t stop my mind from thinking bout a relapse. I keep “a relapse is the road to recovery” in my head. I called a female friend over so I could have some company but I’m thinking bout sending her away so I can PMO or MO( I don’t want any of those anyway)
thats your addiction talking. its very very sneaky in the ways in which it tries to fuck you around and make you relapse. relapses can be educational and help you recover, but if you trick yourself into thinking that you need to actually WILL them youre gonna be in a bad place.
 

Ruthless

Member
I failed. After 2 months of going without MO. I had no urges for PMO or any sexual activity. I had a disappointing text from someone and that was it. I MO’ed without porn tho I couldn’t even get a 40% boner(didn’t even feel that good). I know how this might end because I’ve been down this road b4. I feel so miserable bcos I should’ve known better than that( it’s like my mind scheduled this to happen since yesterday and I wasn’t able to stop it). I’ve gotten so depressive cos the thoughts of how my life will turn out if I’m not able to break free from this keeps flooding my mind
 

DLS184

Member
Become disciplined
Write a dairy, check your daily routine and write when your cravings become the most… and after that write a daily plan to organize and obviation your cravings
 

Ruthless

Member
Today I’m glad I went without no social media, I decided not to think bout my reboot and PMO. There were urges to MO but I tried to stay busy by reading and watching videos of B. Church on YouTube and that was very helpful. After yesterday’s MO, I’ve decided to go harder and cold turkey starting today. I’m gonna try so hard to leave this nasty addiction behind me
 
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