Successful PiV sex after 300+ days(10+ months)

Stiffy999

Active Member
Hello guys I'm so satisfied and that's why I want to make this post to give you all hope.For all those who are only now starting and have no hope-dont worry don't panic i've been in your situation too!
Yesterday I've had first successful sex both for me and my gf and that's why I decided to finally write here.We used to have sex before but she was never near O(because I had sort of PE) unless i go down on her afterwards.Yesterday we were finally both happy at the same time and there were no PE - I felt like I can O whenever I wanted to.
Basic info:
-22yr, heterosexual male
-Watched porn regularly at least once a day since 11 to 21 yrs old
-Escalated through some genres that were no longer connected with vanilla sex that much at around 17yrs
-First 2 months wanted to try hardmode but I relapsed 3 or 4 times and only after that I managed to go 5 months hardmode after I orgasmed from gf's HJ
-So I described first 7 months and last 3+ months were filled with O with my gf (HJ more often than PIV sex)

Before NoFap:
-Lazy guy that smoked weed every now and then
-Didn't do any sports at all
-Been spending almost 7 hours a day on my phone(not counting porn)
-Couldn't get,let alone,maintain an erection in any sexual opportunity
-Watched porn every day for 10 years and last year i've watched it probably 3 or 4 times a day
-0 morning woods last couple of years
Now:
-Haven't smoked weed whole summer nor this autumn and I intend to keep it that way
-Go on basketball or tennis regulary
-Spend less time on my phone and much more with my girlfriend
-Regained much sensitivity in my penis,able to get and maintain erection for sexual activities
-My relationship bloomed because I'm not impotent any more and my girlfriend now feels hot and beautiful as she always should have
-I still have some issues with my sensitivity-i can only have two rounds of sex a day even though one is enough for me.For the third round my libido is completely dead but I can still get it up and maintain it that way but I feel too much pain down there and i can't do much because of it
-MW 4 or 5 times a week

Overall experience:
I can say that NoFap really helps a lot but believe me it is not enough.You can go NoFap 10 years and still go limp every time.You need to change your mindset about sex because porn teaches you that all focus should be on you,but reality isn't like that.You have to find loving partner and give them all your attention and forget about nofap,reboot,dick and everything of that sort and just make them enjoy themselves.I know there are a lot of threads about flatline but screw that, don't even think about the flatline, don't give it any importance and it will go by faster,just forget about it.So if you want functional sex life here are some steps:
1)Stop Porn forever and never ever return to it or you will destroy your progress
2)Change your lazy ass habits(start doing sports,studying,reading,jogging or anything that will take your mind off laying in bed and thinking about hot bitches on pornsites)
3)Set NoFap goal and stick to it until you reach it and then don't ruin it but rather keep going
4)Find a loving partner and be honest about your situation, most women are very supportive when you open up to them
5)When engaging sexual activity don't worry about your willy,it doesn't have to work there are a lot of other ways to give your SO pleasure.When you take that pressure off your back a.k.a. performance anxiety reboot will go much smoother for you.
Conclusioion:
Don't get me wrong when I mention before and after nofap-there were no superpowers or any similar bullshit that people describe.NoFap didn't make me do that things rather my motivation to change my shitty lifestyle.Don't expect that keeping your semen will make you superhero super handsome or something like that- NO IT WILL NOT 100%.NoFap cures your PIED but in order for it to work you need to change your shitty lifestyle by following steps that I mentioned above.
If you have any questions I will be happy to answer all of them
 

DLS184

Member
I’m proud of you Bro💪🏼
I’m really happy that I read your journey and yes, I feel your story
I told some guys the same about Reboot and recovery
The most important thing is your mind, I realize that after 2 Months and since this moment I realized what Rebooting really means… everything became easier
I’m almost at the magical 90, but the big achievements are to change Mindset and do it really and not just talking

So big guy, enjoy your new life and keep your hands above the blanket 😂✌🏼
Greets from Germany and it would be nice, when you are talking about achievements after the reboot
 

Cp6uH

Member
Yesterday we were finally both happy at the same time and there were no PE
Congratulations bro on your patience 10+ months is long period but I can see you fought through it!
I am happy that you managed to improve your lifestyle that much,that is awesome and I am really happy for you.So about this I quoted above,what do you mean when you say that ? You both O at the same time ?
 

Stiffy999

Active Member
Congratulations bro on your patience 10+ months is long period but I can see you fought through it!
I am happy that you managed to improve your lifestyle that much,that is awesome and I am really happy for you.So about this I quoted above,what do you mean when you say that ? You both O at the same time ?
Yeah,exactly.Great feeling when you satisfy your love and yourself
 

Stiffy999

Active Member
I’m proud of you Bro💪🏼
I’m really happy that I read your journey and yes, I feel your story
I told some guys the same about Reboot and recovery
The most important thing is your mind, I realize that after 2 Months and since this moment I realized what Rebooting really means… everything became easier
I’m almost at the magical 90, but the big achievements are to change Mindset and do it really and not just talking

So big guy, enjoy your new life and keep your hands above the blanket 😂✌🏼
Greets from Germany and it would be nice, when you are talking about achievements after the reboot
Thanks for your kind words,
I wish you all the best in your journey bro
 

canguro

Active Member
Absolutely agree with you, gotta change our life, not just go nofap!
Congratulations, you really did it and we can do it to if we stick to it!
I've seen it all the time, those who succeed are those who are able to change their mindset and I totally agree with you about the flatline, don't give it too much importance, but concentrate on the rewiring.
 

Stiffy999

Active Member
Absolutely agree with you, gotta change our life, not just go nofap!
Congratulations, you really did it and we can do it to if we stick to it!
I've seen it all the time, those who succeed are those who are able to change their mindset and I totally agree with you about the flatline, don't give it too much importance, but concentrate on the rewiring.
Yeah man, it's cool that you understand my point.I'm just really sorry about guys stuck in endless flatlines for years just because they are waiting for the flatline to end or unsuccessfully trying to end it with some testosterone boosters or MO or supplements and by living like that they subconsciously give flatline big or maybe even the biggest importance in their life which naturally triggers brain to send the neurochemicals to the rest of the organism and sadly keeps them in a flatline.Basically,by deeply believing that they are in flatline and that it will never end for them,they subconsciously create flatline environment in their organism and it will really never end with that mindset sadly.
 
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keyballa

Member
Hello guys I'm so satisfied and that's why I want to make this post to give you all hope.For all those who are only now starting and have no hope-dont worry don't panic i've been in your situation too!
Yesterday I've had first successful sex both for me and my gf and that's why I decided to finally write here.We used to have sex before but she was never near O(because I had sort of PE) unless i go down on her afterwards.Yesterday we were finally both happy at the same time and there were no PE - I felt like I can O whenever I wanted to.
Basic info:
-22yr, heterosexual male
-Watched porn regularly at least once a day since 11 to 21 yrs old
-Escalated through some genres that were no longer connected with vanilla sex that much at around 17yrs
-First 2 months wanted to try hardmode but I relapsed 3 or 4 times and only after that I managed to go 5 months hardmode after I orgasmed from gf's HJ
-So I described first 7 months and last 3+ months were filled with O with my gf (HJ more often than PIV sex)

Before NoFap:
-Lazy guy that smoked weed every now and then
-Didn't do any sports at all
-Been spending almost 7 hours a day on my phone(not counting porn)
-Couldn't get,let alone,maintain an erection in any sexual opportunity
-Watched porn every day for 10 years and last year i've watched it probably 3 or 4 times a day
-0 morning woods last couple of years
Now:
-Haven't smoked weed whole summer nor this autumn and I intend to keep it that way
-Go on basketball or tennis regulary
-Spend less time on my phone and much more with my girlfriend
-Regained much sensitivity in my penis,able to get and maintain erection for sexual activities
-My relationship bloomed because I'm not impotent any more and my girlfriend now feels hot and beautiful as she always should have
-I still have some issues with my sensitivity-i can only have two rounds of sex a day even though one is enough for me.For the third round my libido is completely dead but I can still get it up and maintain it that way but I feel too much pain down there and i can't do much because of it
-MW 4 or 5 times a week

Overall experience:
I can say that NoFap really helps a lot but believe me it is not enough.You can go NoFap 10 years and still go limp every time.You need to change your mindset about sex because porn teaches you that all focus should be on you,but reality isn't like that.You have to find loving partner and give them all your attention and forget about nofap,reboot,dick and everything of that sort and just make them enjoy themselves.I know there are a lot of threads about flatline but screw that, don't even think about the flatline, don't give it any importance and it will go by faster,just forget about it.So if you want functional sex life here are some steps:
1)Stop Porn forever and never ever return to it or you will destroy your progress
2)Change your lazy ass habits(start doing sports,studying,reading,jogging or anything that will take your mind off laying in bed and thinking about hot bitches on pornsites)
3)Set NoFap goal and stick to it until you reach it and then don't ruin it but rather keep going
4)Find a loving partner and be honest about your situation, most women are very supportive when you open up to them
5)When engaging sexual activity don't worry about your willy,it doesn't have to work there are a lot of other ways to give your SO pleasure.When you take that pressure off your back a.k.a. performance anxiety reboot will go much smoother for you.
Conclusioion:
Don't get me wrong when I mention before and after nofap-there were no superpowers or any similar bullshit that people describe.NoFap didn't make me do that things rather my motivation to change my shitty lifestyle.Don't expect that keeping your semen will make you superhero super handsome or something like that- NO IT WILL NOT 100%.NoFap cures your PIED but in order for it to work you need to change your shitty lifestyle by following steps that I mentioned above.
If you have any questions I will be happy to answer all of them
That’s what’s up bro! So happy for you! This gives me hope!
 

Stiffy999

Active Member
That’s what’s up bro! So happy for you! This gives me hope!
Thanks bro! I'm happy to help,I know that success stories are the most important thing during your lowest periods in reboot and can motivate you to stay on right track, that's why I wanted to write mine
 

Tryinghere

Active Member
Yeah man, it's cool that you understand my point.I'm just really sorry about guys stuck in endless flatlines for years just because they are waiting for the flatline to end or unsuccessfully trying to end it with some testosterone boosters or MO or supplements and by living like that they subconsciously give flatline big or maybe even the biggest importance in their life which naturally triggers brain to send the neurochemicals to the rest of the organism and sadly keeps them in a flatline.Basically,by deeply believing that they are in flatline and that it will never end for them,they subconsciously create flatline environment in their organism and it will really never end with that mindset sadly.
I needed to read this.
 
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