Lacrymossa
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I am very sorry that you have to experience this and I wish you much strength and I understand that you don't want to fight that battle (again).
Do you know how much vids he watched? Was it a one time thing or more often?
You are right that the artifical stimulation has the same effect on a porn addict. (I am not quite sure if he is one? You wrote here in the partners section once, is it the same guy or do you just assume it was PIED?)
If he is an addict these tiktok vids will also lead to porn very quick.
PS: If he is not, things are different. Then I would just tell him that it is a No-Go for you (okay, he should have figured that out by now).
Do you know how much vids he watched? Was it a one time thing or more often?
You are right that the artifical stimulation has the same effect on a porn addict. (I am not quite sure if he is one? You wrote here in the partners section once, is it the same guy or do you just assume it was PIED?)
If he is an addict these tiktok vids will also lead to porn very quick.
PS: If he is not, things are different. Then I would just tell him that it is a No-Go for you (okay, he should have figured that out by now).
otanerferguson
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If not the same, I think it might even be worse, because the rate of change from one vid to the next one on TikTok is considerably faster than clicking on tabs in tube sites, as bad as that already is. I think that it is even harmful for those who don't check out asses and boobs on TikTok. Just the sheer amount of attention stimulation is frying everyone's brain on that platform. Bunch of teens in my block now experiencing depression at such a young age. Long story short, if you do decide to ditch him, screen your next partner for porn use, because I've been spreading the word and coming clean about my process and as it turns out, not a few but ALL my friends in my inner circle from ages 35 through 50 are experiencing some sort of porn related issue in bed with their wives in general. This is truly a pandemic.
Yeah that’s exactly the same. The “rule” is no artificial stimulation. So no porn, no pictures or videos on YouTube or social media. Even sexting isn’t a good idea.Hi all.
I wanted to double check with more experienced people here, what would you say to the fact that partner is not watching porn (at least that is what he states) but he is watching porn like videos on tiktok which is full of naked beautiful ladies. Isn't it exactly the same thing as porn and doesn't it have exactly same impact on sex life as porn?
I would say for me it is exactly same thing but wanted to get your thoughts on that.