DONT KNOWN IF I AM ON THE RIGHT PATH -REBOOTING OR REWIRING

Benovi

Member
In January 2021, my dick was as small as my little finger and lifeless. I stayed away from born and with 3 months I could have erections again and then sometimes they were very strong but my dick was never as BiG as it was before flatlining.

I have just started having morning wood but they are weak and I am not still not having the complement of a full dick....it has been almost a month of being in this phase and I feel like I am stuck here and not sure when I will move pass this phase.

Could this be the end of my recovery?...will me erections be like they used to be?...will my dick get fully engorged and rock hard again....?...I feel like 11 months is long enough to have fully recovered and I am tempted to believe this my full recovery.....

Guys, has any body been here before?..how long after were you fully recovered ???


Any help????
 

Fappy

Respected Member
How long were you addicted to pmo? The longer you were addicted the more severe the damage to your brain will be. It could just be that you need more time, even though you think its long enough.
 

Benovi

Member
Not sure I identified my addiction until after I flatlined....prior to that I had been pmoing since I was 19 and before my first sexual experience....
 

Chrisaaa7

Member
In January 2021, my dick was as small as my little finger and lifeless. I stayed away from born and with 3 months I could have erections again and then sometimes they were very strong but my dick was never as BiG as it was before flatlining.

I have just started having morning wood but they are weak and I am not still not having the complement of a full dick....it has been almost a month of being in this phase and I feel like I am stuck here and not sure when I will move pass this phase.

Could this be the end of my recovery?...will me erections be like they used to be?...will my dick get fully engorged and rock hard again....?...I feel like 11 months is long enough to have fully recovered and I am tempted to believe this my full recovery.....

Guys, has any body been here before?..how long after were you fully recovered ???


Any help????
There is 2 parts of recovery. The first is rebooting from porn which you have. And the second is rewiring towards real women. That is the biggest key for me, which is “reteaching” your brain to be attracted to a real girl instead of a screen. Obviously you can’t force yourself into a relationship but I think you should start putting yourself out there more. Try to talk to girls try to go on dates.
 

Benovi

Member
I actually am doing that...I have had a girl with me this whole time since January. Just this morning I still was wondering how much longer I have to wait. I am beginning to feel like she is surviving me rather than enjoying me sexually.
 

Chrisaaa7

Member
I actually am doing that...I have had a girl with me this whole time since January. Just this morning I still was wondering how much longer I have to wait. I am beginning to feel like she is surviving me rather than enjoying me sexually.
There is no correct answer when answering how long it will take. Everyone is different and everyone has different time. Keep doing what you’re doing and you’ll keep making great progress.
 

Benovi

Member
Thanks....but I will like to know if anyone else experienced slower improvement rates as time went by and at which point it was.....
 

Benovi

Member
I flatlined before I discovered what it was.....my abstinence from porn and masturbation did not start as a conscious effort. I was dealing with a lot of things at that point in my life and unintentionally stopped watching porn for about 2 months. I realised my libido had dropped but I didn't know why...I had a new girl 2 months later and realised I couldn't get it up when we 1st tried to have sex.
 

scorpion1386

Well-Known Member
I flatlined before I discovered what it was.....my abstinence from porn and masturbation did not start as a conscious effort. I was dealing with a lot of things at that point in my life and unintentionally stopped watching porn for about 2 months. I realised my libido had dropped but I didn't know why...I had a new girl 2 months later and realised I couldn't get it up when we 1st tried to have sex.

What caused you to unintentionally stop watching porn for 2 months? I'm a bit confused here, sorry.
 

Benovi

Member
I was having issues with my gf by then, and also preparing for exams and dealing with serious work issues....I usually got home very exhausted and just entirely forgot about porn altogether...even if it crossed my mind, I just didn't act on it
 

Benovi

Member
It's been 2years and I hang bigger now. My erections are still weak in the morning but but not when I am making out. I do loose my erections during sex sometimes and there are other times -less frequent- when my erection sticks around in full strength
 
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