Unending cycle of flatline

[Sangiha]

I keep screwing up. I feel like I am healed after 1-2 months of rebooting and relapse myself back into a nasty flatline.. I am sick of having constant dead dick periods which seem to last forever everytime i relapse. Its really depressing. Need to stay strong.

 

[Chrisaaa7]

I keep screwing up. I feel like I am healed after 1-2 months of rebooting and relapse myself back into a nasty flatline.. I am sick of having constant dead dick periods which seem to last forever everytime i relapse. Its really depressing. Need to stay strong.

You can’t do it man, try your best not to relapse after those 1-2 months , even if you can’t control the urge, it’s better just to masturbate then watch porn as well, so if that time comes again then try your best to avoid porn and just masturbate . Masturbating once a month to help keep the urges under control shouldn’t harm your recovery at all

 

[Stiffy999]

I keep screwing up. I feel like I am healed after 1-2 months of rebooting and relapse myself back into a nasty flatline.. I am sick of having constant dead dick periods which seem to last forever everytime i relapse. Its really depressing. Need to stay strong.

I've been reading some of your posts over time,maybe even replying occasionally,so I know that you are a long-term rebooter.As I recall,you are in a relationship and that's why I wonder-what makes you relapse if you have SO that you can spend all of your sexual energy with ?

 

[Sangiha]

I've been reading some of your posts over time,maybe even replying occasionally,so I know that you are a long-term rebooter.As I recall,you are in a relationship and that's why I wonder-what makes you relapse if you have SO that you can spend all of your sexual energy with ?

Were in a long distance relationship and I see her once every month or two. It seems that I always relapse few days after she leaves because we’d have a lot of sex when together and its so much harder to control my sexual urges moments after we part. I know what to do but i just am not self disciplined enough just yet.

 

[Sangiha]

You can’t do it man, try your best not to relapse after those 1-2 months , even if you can’t control the urge, it’s better just to masturbate then watch porn as well, so if that time comes again then try your best to avoid porn and just masturbate . Masturbating once a month to help keep the urges under control shouldn’t harm your recovery at all

Thanks brother. You are right masturbating is better than watching porn 1000%. Though i think i still need to reboot longer before i can masturbate without porn. And my addiction craves me to watch sexual online content more than touching myself so I my relapses always begin with looking at sexual photos or gifs that I get out of sometimes but leading to edging or relapsing most times. I know I shouldnt be playing with fire and I’ve been weak. I’m gonna get over this.

 

[Stiffy999]

Were in a long distance relationship and I see her once every month or two. It seems that I always relapse few days after she leaves because we’d have a lot of sex when together and its so much harder to control my sexual urges moments after we part. I know what to do but i just am not self disciplined enough just yet.

Ah ok,then I understand.If you ask me there is nothing wrong with watching sexy pics of your girlfriend and fantasizing about real deal with her while MO(of course only if you are long-term rebooter like you are).Also luckily,there is video chat which you can use in a lot of ways if you know what I mean.

 

[Chrisaaa7]

Thanks brother. You are right masturbating is better than watching porn 1000%. Though i think i still need to reboot longer before i can masturbate without porn. And my addiction craves me to watch sexual online content more than touching myself so I my relapses always begin with looking at sexual photos or gifs that I get out of sometimes but leading to edging or relapsing most times. I know I shouldnt be playing with fire and I’ve been weak. I’m gonna get over this.

Yeah man you got this . Masturbstion isn’t the problem, porn / any sexual videos are the problem. However, masturbstion can slow it down a bit, everyone is different. Some people do nofap till they are cured, some people do nofap for 30 days then introduce masturbstion again, some people completely leave out masturbation and only orgasm with a partner(if they have one). The point is , everyone is different, it’s what works best for you, but you should completely stop watching any videos because they is the problem

 

[Fappy]

Embrace the flatline! The flatline is your friend, your penis is NOT your friend right now. Let the little fucker die for a while, its caused you enough trouble. Itll come back to life again the longer you proceed in your reboot.

 

[Sangiha]

Yeah man you got this . Masturbstion isn’t the problem, porn / any sexual videos are the problem. However, masturbstion can slow it down a bit, everyone is different. Some people do nofap till they are cured, some people do nofap for 30 days then introduce masturbstion again, some people completely leave out masturbation and only orgasm with a partner(if they have one). The point is , everyone is different, it’s what works best for you, but you should completely stop watching any videos because they is the problem

Truly a great advise. Thank you. I know i have to only orgasm with my partner for awhile for my most successful reboot. Until then i am trying not to play with fire.

 

[Sangiha]

Embrace the flatline! The flatline is your friend, your penis is NOT your friend right now. Let the little fucker die for a while, its caused you enough trouble. Itll come back to life again the longer you proceed in your reboot.

Hey fappy,

Thanks for your advice. i always see you responding to others on this forum so it makes me wonder what your story is. If you dont mind me asking..
How old are you?
Were you an addict who went through all the recovery??

 

[Fappy]

Hey fappy,

Thanks for your advice. i always see you responding to others on this forum so it makes me wonder what your story is. If you dont mind me asking..
How old are you?
Were you an addict who went through all the recovery??

Hi buddy. I’m 34 years old. I consider myself a porn addict from the age of 21 to around 30. I was heavily into porn and it ruined a lot of aspects of my life. I now feel that i have recovered, if addicts truly ever recover, that is, but regained the part of my brain that got fucked up by porn in any case!