2 months in, should I attempt sexual acts with my significant other?

[Lyrch42]

I’m around 60 days in. I’ve gone through a flatline for about 2-4 weeks. This past week I haven’t had dead dick as much during the day. I’m slowly getting random erections during the day. But I loose them once I move/ stand up. My significant other is coming to town this weekend. She’s known about my reboot process. I definitely wanna attempt something. If I’m able to have intercorse do I do it. Or I should I just try to start with oral?
Any tips or advice when getting back into things?

 

[Stiffy999]

I’m around 60 days in. I’ve gone through a flatline for about 2-4 weeks. This past week I haven’t had dead dick as much during the day. I’m slowly getting random erections during the day. But I loose them once I move/ stand up. My significant other is coming to town this weekend. She’s known about my reboot process. I definitely wanna attempt something. If I’m able to have intercorse do I do it. Or I should I just try to start with oral?
Any tips or advice when getting back into things?

The point of reboot is to return functionality in your dick.To reverse what porn did to your brain and sex life.If you feel confident and want to try intercourse-of course you should do it ! Don't worry about 90 days it doesn't mean anything, someone recovers after 90 days,someone after 200 days,others after 500 days and some guys even after a month or two.So continue NoFap and no PMO and do sex as much as possible

 

[Chrisaaa7]

I’m around 60 days in. I’ve gone through a flatline for about 2-4 weeks. This past week I haven’t had dead dick as much during the day. I’m slowly getting random erections during the day. But I loose them once I move/ stand up. My significant other is coming to town this weekend. She’s known about my reboot process. I definitely wanna attempt something. If I’m able to have intercorse do I do it. Or I should I just try to start with oral?
Any tips or advice when getting back into things?

Yes I agree with the comment above me, there is no specific deadline or date that you should attempt, if you feel like it then go for it! The whole point is to rewire with a real person. However, if intercourse still isn’t working (that’s ok it takes time) don’t try force an erection but constant stimulation , just try to take it easy and maybe take a break then go for it again when you’re ready. You got this

 

[Fappy]

The fact that youre considering it might be a sign that you arent ready yet. You’ll know when you are because you wont even think about it, it just sort of happens. To avoid a potentially embarrassing situation for both of you, maybe hold off a little longer? Sure, start with some manual techniques to get each other off, hands, mouths, toys, inanimate objects (within reason...), first just to get a feel for things and to rewire to an actual person. Or just dont do anything sexual and just kiss and touch each other. The goal remember is to rewire your sexual arousal to a real life person.

 

[Lyrch42]

The fact that youre considering it might be a sign that you arent ready yet. You’ll know when you are because you wont even think about it, it just sort of happens. To avoid a potentially embarrassing situation for both of you, maybe hold off a little longer? Sure, start with some manual techniques to get each other off, hands, mouths, toys, inanimate objects (within reason...), first just to get a feel for things and to rewire to an actual person. Or just dont do anything sexual and just kiss and touch each other. The goal remember is to rewire your sexual arousal to a real life person.

Well due to school, we currently see each other about once a month. So I feel like it’s kind of hard to judge what to do, the only reason I’m questioning it is because i see her so little. I want to maximize the rewire process from porn to person, but I only see her for 72 hours at a time if we’re lucky. I guess what I’m asking is what I can do to maximize my progress within those 72 hours with my partner. The other 27 days I’m working on myself. But when she’s around what can I do to help rewire to feel tbe stimulation with a person.

 

[Fappy]

Well due to school, we currently see each other about once a month. So I feel like it’s kind of hard to judge what to do, the only reason I’m questioning it is because i see her so little. I want to maximize the rewire process from porn to person, but I only see her for 72 hours at a time if we’re lucky. I guess what I’m asking is what I can do to maximize my progress within those 72 hours with my partner. The other 27 days I’m working on myself. But when she’s around what can I do to help rewire to feel tbe stimulation with a person.

ok i see, im not sure that theres any quick fix or "bandaid" solution for what youre trying to do. just keep maximising your reboot and yourself, then those 72 hours will be maximised as well.

 

[Tryinghere]

the single best thing I ever did in my rewire was talk w my wife. We set up a time to touch each other but she would NOT expect and erectiong and if I did get hard I would NOT cum. This little move seems to be the best thing I could have done to return functionality to my member. Good luck dude.