45 Days without PMO but I need help please

[NewMan10]

Hello, I have been without PMO for 45 days, but as I mentioned in another post, I have fallen a few times in seeing images of naked boobs, but every time I am stronger. The truth is, I don't need porn, but I fantasize a lot about wanting to have sex with my girlfriend, that is, I constantly imagine her naked, I think a lot about her body, her tits, her ass. In short, I'm dying to fuck her and do everything with her private parts. I don't know if this is normal, or should I try to regulate those types of thoughts more, because in one way or another I am afraid of falling back into porn and the truth is I am in difficult mode, because I also have dysfunction and premature ejaculation problems. What dou you recommend?

 

[jcwright]

Congratulations. 45 days is amazing. May I suggest one thing ? How about you discuss this with your girlfriend ? Does she know about your struggles ?

I recommend you read my latest post. I have some tips that might help you.

Keep it up!

 

[Fappy]

congrats on the 45 days. thats quite an acheivement!
obsessively fantasising about her might be a trigger to watch porn, so try to curb those fantasies a bit. in order to do that , it might help to utilize some of the techniques you used when you stopped looking at porn.

 

[NewMan10]

@Fappy @jcwright Thanks friends, ok, I'm going to do my best to stop those fantasies and continue with the fight. I also think that those fantasies come up a lot because when the 90 days go by I want to have sex with her, so in one way or another it is like the anxiety that I will come to those days to do it, but it is an impulse that I must control, better to think that While I recover, the sex still does not exist.

 

[Fappy]

@Fappy @jcwright Thanks friends, ok, I'm going to do my best to stop those fantasies and continue with the fight. I also think that those fantasies come up a lot because when the 90 days go by I want to have sex with her, so in one way or another it is like the anxiety that I will come to those days to do it, but it is an impulse that I must control, better to think that While I recover, the sex still does not exist.

yes thats a good way to think about it