Thanks my friend! That's another conversation indeed. Although one I would welcome having. I find it incredibly stupid that this is a problem we have to deal with. Like you, my wife and I are completely in sync and we compliment each other well. We're strong and in love. Literally the only real issue we face at this point is our problem in the bedroom. Luckily we're both on the same page to fix it so I'm hopeful this is almost over. I understand it will never REALLY be over. I can never look at porn again even casually. We'll forever carry the baggage that this has given us. But Hopefully one day soon I'll be able to be with her without a worry about whether or not we will fail. Its that nagging "what if it doesn't work" that slowly grinds away at my will to live.