Bro one suggestion.
Oh absolutely dude. Thank you for the suggestion. She’s not of menopause age. Mid 30’s. We’ve just got ourselves a doozy of a situation.
I appreciate the support mang
Thanks for the suggestion. We are actually both in the process of trying to be healthier overall. SchedulingMy wife gained a few pounds coz she gave birth. Luckily she has always been very enthusiatic with working out. She hits the gym like 4 times a week and i gotta tell you man she has done some serious weight loss and now she's pretty thin yet muscular. Fucking gorgeous.. my point being, if you are not exercising yet start doing so and provoke her as well to start exercising with you?
Me and my lady both go to the same gym. Not together coz one has to stay home with kids. We both exercise like lunatics. We share the same passion for weights.
I'm not suggesting this because i think your wife needs to lose weight but because it makes her feel better inside for herself. When she feels better about herself she radiates her confidence and good mood all around her. You know?
we worked out together tonight for the first time in years. Gonna start doing it 3 times a week. All her idea!My wife gained a few pounds coz she gave birth. Luckily she has always been very enthusiatic with working out. She hits the gym like 4 times a week and i gotta tell you man she has done some serious weight loss and now she's pretty thin yet muscular. Fucking gorgeous.. my point being, if you are not exercising yet start doing so and provoke her as well to start exercising with you?
Me and my lady both go to the same gym. Not together coz one has to stay home with kids. We both exercise like lunatics. We share the same passion for weights.
I'm not suggesting this because i think your wife needs to lose weight but because it makes her feel better inside for herself. When she feels better about herself she radiates her confidence and good mood all around her. You know?
You were a huge help bro.
So happy to know that!
Ain’t that the truth!
I won't tell you what to do, but I suggest you rather break the china or punch a hole in the drywall. When YOUR shit breaks again, cause that's the only outcome, that finding won't be as interesting.
Dude you're right. I have no idea what happened. I wasn't planning on it. I wasn't wanting to. I wasn't feeling any urges. Then....out of the blue and without warning something in my head went "ok....so here's what we're going to do". Before I could even give it a conscious thought. I went to my old favorite category and clicked a couple videos. Skipped through them and didn't watch the entire things. But I could feel a dopamine rush in my head. It was at that moment I realized what had happened and I shut it off. I feel like an asshole.
Aww shit. Shame on you! I kinda relate to you. I'm an older guy as well, have a wife and kids and schedules and shit. I come here mostly just to check your progress
i have not made any of my own updates for a a while but i stick around in a scene nevertheless.Yoooo. Thanks for checking in on me. I’d almost bet your fatigue is Covidey lol. The shit went through our house after the new year. Let me know your thoughts on T-supplements. I took Alphaviril for a couple months to help me along the way and I noticed an immediate difference the first week or two then it faded to nothing.Aww shit. Shame on you! I kinda relate to you. I'm an older guy as well, have a wife and kids and schedules and shit. I come here mostly just to check your progress
I have not relapsed. Sure i have seen some tits when scrolling the boards few weeks ago but those didn't give me any exitement and i kept scrolling. And now i don't visit those boards/forums anymore. I have actually dramatically reduced my pointless internet usage in every possible ways. I watch only netflix, sometimes youtube, pay my bills, and if i'm really bored i read some news headlines. I rewire sex things with my woman but i also rewire myself with the real world, away from the net. I find it highly satisfying. Anxiety, stress and bad mood are almost gone by now.
I've been in a flatline for a few weeks now and libido has been almost zero. Yesterday and today i feel it might be waking up. I'm not sure. I feel better and i have little pressure down there and boners are easier and harder. Makes me kinda wanna have sex.. what a nice feeling. It also might be because i have started to take t-supplements recently, like few days ago. I know these supps are quite controversy and they are not supposed to work so quickly, if they even work at all... but who knows. Basicly they are just zinc, vitamin b6 and tribulus terrestris. But hey, they don't do any harm so why not taking them.
Edit: oh, and i've been having fatigue and muscle pain recently. I don't know if they are due to my nofap or perhaps covid19? I'm little sick, like very little. Just minor cough. Some of my family members have covid infection right now, so i don't know. Muscle pains might be because of that also.
I'm on day 65 in my reboot. Today i feel better. Yes i'm still little sick but i'm not tired, so perhaps fatigue was due to covid instead of reboot.
Oh man. Yeah if you’re anything like where I was at 65 you’re in the middle of the shit right now. It gets better. The best advice I have is meditation, cold showers, and foolin around w your lady even if you aren’t feeling it.I'm on day 65 in my reboot. Today i feel better. Yes i'm still little sick but i'm not tired, so perhaps fatigue was due to covid instead of reboot.
I miss my libido. Where is it? :/ i know it will return at some point but not knowing it for sure leaves some room for doubt. This really calls for patience. I've seen some signs that it might be returning but within few hours or so it falls into deep slumber again. Stays hidden for few days and then it might give a little sign of waking up and then go away again. It's almost impossible to believe that before day 90 it will come back. Perhaps it might return before 150 days have passed, but i don't know. This sucks monkey balls
