Username was cap
That used to be me (not being able to masturbate without a visual aid, or at least a very graphic written one). I was convinced that that was my immutable nature, that some people could get off to sensation but that I simply couldn't. Only after I started this reboot process did I discover that I can in fact MO without any kind of visual/written/imaginary aid.I got the impression that they weren't really considering the concept of masturbating without porn. A coworker even told me that he doesn't think that he'd be able to masturbate without a visual aid. I'm not surprised by these sorts of revelations, and they're further proof to me that I need to help fix these issues
Hey man, is that a drum kit I see in the background there? When last did you play that? And thank you for sharing on video as well - what a powerful and vulnerable way of sharing. What a cool idea. Keep it up man - and don’t let those substitutes get into your head. They’re so evil to someone who is just (re)starting their fight against porn.
I may have underestimated, not to mention my other speech imperfections...
Damn dude, sounds like you're making some great changes! I can 100% agree with you that attractiveness is such a big mindset thing. Different people find all sorts of different people and body types attractive, and perhaps the most universally attractive quality to have is earnest self appreciation, so good on you for taking steps to put yourself out there!I also use the black sweatshirt one that I posted here recently. I have a some specific ideas for other photos, one of which I won't be able to carry out until at least this Thursday, but I don't feel like I need my whole hypothetical arsenal of pics to begin this endeavor. Taking these photos has put my opinion on my attractiveness (or lack of) in limbo; at this point I feel like it's mostly a mindset thing.