SLOW RECOVERY

BigM

Member
Today I start the reboot again, I feel bad having relapsed in December. Luckily I can still manage an erection, though I still have no libido. It's frustrating , not to be aroused when I see a naked lady, my girl doesn't turn me on that much, and I can't always give her sex when she demands for it. I can still get an erection, but that only happens after spending few minutes stimulating my penis, and visualising her in my head. It also ends in frustration after having sex I can't get it ready for the second round. And if I happen to have sex I quickly hit a flat line for two to three days before I can get it up again. Will I ever get better? Why does it have to be this hard and frustrating.
 

Stiffy999

Active Member
Today I start the reboot again, I feel bad having relapsed in December. Luckily I can still manage an erection, though I still have no libido. It's frustrating , not to be aroused when I see a naked lady, my girl doesn't turn me on that much, and I can't always give her sex when she demands for it. I can still get an erection, but that only happens after spending few minutes stimulating my penis, and visualising her in my head. It also ends in frustration after having sex I can't get it ready for the second round. And if I happen to have sex I quickly hit a flat line for two to three days before I can get it up again. Will I ever get better? Why does it have to be this hard and frustrating.
Don't worry about your performance or libido or even flatline.The worst thing you can do is panic like that,it kills libido.Forget everything about all of those things,they are completely irrelevant.

I've been in your situation and realisation that sex isn't only about putting penis in vagina helped me a lot.Any dude can put his dick inside any woman but that isn't sex, actually sex is the way of coming closer to your SO and making her enjoy every second she spent with you.That feeling is the best pleasure sex gives you.If possible go for that second round,on the other hand if your dick doesn't respond for second round what's the big rdeal ? It doesn't have to get up and you can still make your gf the happiest woman in the world by many other ways.The point is erection isn't required to have awesome and fulfilling sex.As soon as you realise these facts,that pressure from having to get it up will disappear and satisfaction on your gf's beautiful face and body will make you the happiest person ever.I wish you best of luck in your reboot.
P.S. Screw that relapse it doesn't mean anything if you don't repeat it again
 

Fappy

Respected Member
You can definitely get better. Rebooting is the only way to get better. It works like a charm. Try not to be frustrated about your sexual inadequacies, if you stick to your reboot strategy you will get better. It’s happened to most of us, myself included. Just use that feeling to motivate you; never ever to feel like that again.
your brain seems to still be wired to the pixels on a screen, stopping all porn and porn substitutes will fix that.
 
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Today I start the reboot again, I feel bad having relapsed in December. Luckily I can still manage an erection, though I still have no libido. It's frustrating , not to be aroused when I see a naked lady, my girl doesn't turn me on that much, and I can't always give her sex when she demands for it. I can still get an erection, but that only happens after spending few minutes stimulating my penis, and visualising her in my head. It also ends in frustration after having sex I can't get it ready for the second round. And if I happen to have sex I quickly hit a flat line for two to three days before I can get it up again. Will I ever get better? Why does it have to be this hard and frustrating.
man please read my post
 
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