This is my first time posting. I found out about my partners problem a couple days ago. I am so hurt and feel so betrayed. I knew there was something going on because he looked so guilty when I’d come in to the room and he’d be on his phone. His phone has become something I completely hate. I hate what he does. I feel so inadequate and feel like he cares nothing about me. We were engaged but I took my ring off after seeing everything he has been doing. I am not going to marry someone who hurts me like this. He has been even looking at pictures of women on Flickr. This is more of a real person way of showing photos. This is to me is complete cheating. I feel so disgusted right now. I feel like there’s no way he can truly love me and do this. He had been looking at this crap while I was laying next to him! I don’t know how to even start to understand this. I am trying to figure out what my boundaries will be. Would love to hear some of yours.