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First_step_thousand_miles

First_step_thousand_miles

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Blondie said:
Day 540! :)

Well I made it, a full year and a half of no porn.

Words can't describe how I feel at the moment. I have a very busy morning today so I'll keep this short for now, but maybe I'll write later on in the afternoon.

You all have a great porn-free Tuesday.
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Hell yeah my guy! Super proud of you, also I gotta say I really have come to enjoy the Blondie musings -- it's like reading a well-thought out blog from a guy with a million different interesting perspectives. As long as you keep finding value in writing them, please keep doing so my man because they're fantastic reads for myself and much of the community :)
 
Blondie

Blondie

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GBS said:
Totally awesome. Math check: 365 + 182 = 547. Hmmm……..
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Thanks @GBS! Well noted :cool:

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Jlied said:
Excellent news!, Don't listen to @GBS, haters are gonna hate 😝😝
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Thanks @Jlied! Isn't that the truth. :cool:
logicprox said:
In finance they often use 360 days in annual calculations. I didn’t realize Blondie was a finance bro.
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Indeed @logicprox, finance bro talking here. Have you heard the term phallic liquidation? After many years of carelessly shooting my shots in the porn market, and doing my business literally "under the table", a year and half ago I've decided to come clean and liquidate my company. After paying off all my digital women and extra Kleenex bills, my life has become unmistakably better. My liquidator told me straight up "Son, life's too short for a short squeeze".

First_step_thousand_miles said:
Hell yeah my guy! Super proud of you, also I gotta say I really have come to enjoy the Blondie musings -- it's like reading a well-thought out blog from a guy with a million different interesting perspectives. As long as you keep finding value in writing them, please keep doing so my man because they're fantastic reads for myself and much of the community :)
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Thanks @First_step_thousand_miles, I appreciate it!

I'm glad you like my musings, they're fun to write.

Keep killing it everyone!
 
Blondie

Blondie

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I just got back from the coffee shop and just wanted to reflect on how clean my brain feels these days. There were a few cuties sitting there and yet, my mind was utterly chill and I just set there and read my book. Back in the day, not that long ago even, I would have been distracted by sexual thoughts of this or that, but these days, I just do me and I love it. It's great to still love women, but not be obsessed with them, I can categorically say I'm now in the former.

I really do love pulling back the layers on the Blondie onion. In fact, it almost makes me cry just thinking about it! ;) 🧅🧅

None of this is magic folks. If we just decide to go day by day and month by month, we will arrive at that blessed destination.

You all have a great porn-free Sunday
 
GBS

GBS

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Hello my friend. I love that post. I wondered just yesterday if I was in the same place. I think I’m not but getting close. Yesterday I was singing a concert and turned up for rehearsal early. There was a kitchen area where I was told I could get a cup of tea. In the kitchen was a lovely lady, I am guessing she was 50. Not a 10, but a solid 8. A year ago I would have created some sort of fantasy ( or would have later on). But I just looked briefly into her eyes and said “lovely, thanks”, and I thought….what a pleasant charming lady. I sat down, sipped my tea, and had a look at my music scores. It was the most utterly nor thing in the world. Of no interest to anyone except us lot. It was glorious.

You’re a hero. Have I said that to you before?
 
Blondie

Blondie

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Thanks for making my day with that story @GBS, that's fantastic.

It's stories like yours that make me so excited for myself and everyone here. We are truly becoming new men, in this wonderful cleansing process that keeps getting better and better. The sad thing is, most men don't even know they have a "problem" and think their thoughts are just "natural" and "being a man". Obviously, if anyone has read anything I've wrote, they would see I have no problem being a man, but what I can't believe, is how different this man is becoming as he gets further and further away from that filth. Yes, I still see and notice women, and yes, I still lust, but these are normal for any red blooded male, as long as they don't get out of hand. However, what IS different is the lack of sexual noise running through my head, distracting me from focusing on the task at hand, and unbelievably, I use to think that was normal.

Yes, I still see and notice beauty, and sometimes I'm even awed by it, but I'm not distracted, and that is truly a wonderful and beautiful development.

You're my hero. Keep inspiring.
 
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