im 35...im in the last few minutes of the game and want to give it my last shot!

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hamilton8 said:
yesterday was day 8 no Porn......what i am trying to do is as i am abstaining from Porn, i need to replace it by connection....so i try and build onto all my relationships.....and increase connection with friends and family as essentially we start porn to deal with a lack of connection in our lives.....so the only way we will heal is to rebuild connections with people....so this is my aim....this will provide large positive changes........BUT i will stay focus, and use positive language
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Good attitude. I am sure you will be successful if you replace porn with connections in your life 💪
 
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yesterday was day 16 no porn.....i have been going for morning walks which has been fruitful. it has regenerated my mind and given me perspective in the mornings. I want to introduce cold showers next into my morning routine. Even if it is for only 30 seconds initially.
 
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today feeling irratable. i find myself having arguments with my loved ones and it is for the most minor reasons.....such a small reason and i will blow up and get angry....i understand this is part of the process to heal- but i will get there......today is day 22
 
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today is day 28 no porn....my personal record is 31 days so i am going strong without wathcing porn and masturbating.....i have my tough moments but im getting there. thank you all for your support......i notice i have weak points where im about to give in but then i quickly change what i am doing. its usually whilst i am in bed. but i quickly get up and get the day ready or i go to sleep and throw my phone onto the floor carpet.
 
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today is day 39. this is the longest i have ever gone . iam really proud and i feel the struggle thats for sure...my libido is non existent...no labido and all. flatline is real....but im trying so ahrd....day 39 no wanking to porn....a long road but im here and tomorrow is a new day
 
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today is day 41.....i have zero labido. my girlfriend is starting to complain that we have not been having sex or being intimate but i actually do not feel like any sexual energy and the flatline is real. i have not told her about my struggles and my blog on here, but i hope my labido will come back in the near future-becasue she is starting to complain that e have not been intimate for a while....but i will soldier on
 
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Great to see you making some real progress Man .i am with you on how it feels to not being able to have that transparency with your partner on your struggles cuz they won’t know what’s under the hood in your life . But bravo ! True it Inspired me that you’ve gone so long and thriving in your reboot . Great work !
 
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hamilton8 said:
im struggling today.. i feel very on edge. im trying to keep it together but im very narky.
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Hi mate, am 34 just recently stopped watching porn from 13 years old, I have stopped over a month now, and stopped stimulating myself over a week. Although I have done a few times before.

Recently I have noticed that I get more urges too but taking cold showers and walking to and from work every day for about 3 miles plus doing intermittent fasting for 5 days of the week (16 hour fast, 8 eating window) has helped get my mood and libdo back. The past few days with my gf I have not suffered from Delayed Ejaculation like usual and my wood is good and strong whilst having sex.

Stay strong with this, it actually does work and I was a person who didn't believe this stuff.
 
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today is day 42. i was intimate with my girlfriend this morning. it was good but my labido is not what i want it to be.....but day 42 is great and im gettgin there
 
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i wonder if there is a real end game. will i actually reboot fully? like is that even possible? to fully reboot and leave PMO behind? who knows
 
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i have been a few months off this tread. for most of the last 5 months i have been on and off porn, more binge porn at times- like once a fortnight binge. It effects my labido with my parternas i feel like in a permanent flatline. but there are many positives. I am now instead of an alcoholic, im a binge drinker with porn- so its a move in the correct direction- i will beat this
 
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