Pondering on the lack of women here

Crackers1

Member
Being a man, my thinking has been muddled and bastardized by porn use. Never, ever, ever did I think a woman could have some sort of porn induced sexual dysfunction.I always felt jealous that " women had it so easy" that " how hard is to just lay there and have intercourse". Consquently, this thinking has led me here, as I apparently don't know jack shit about the struggles of women.What a vicious circle this is...the struggle between women and men and what we expect sexuality to be for both of us.Ive been hearing more and more about women and how they struggle with porn use. This internet is criminal.These pornographers and shock value website creators know exactly what this does and how it ruins out lives and community.
 

Jinx2109

Member
Being a man, my thinking has been muddled and bastardized by porn use. Never, ever, ever did I think a woman could have some sort of porn induced sexual dysfunction.I always felt jealous that " women had it so easy" that " how hard is to just lay there and have intercourse". Consquently, this thinking has led me here, as I apparently don't know jack shit about the struggles of women.What a vicious circle this is...the struggle between women and men and what we expect sexuality to be for both of us.Ive been hearing more and more about women and how they struggle with porn use. This internet is criminal.These pornographers and shock value website creators know exactly what this does and how it ruins out lives and community.
Welcome to the forum! I feel like you worded this really well, because often porn does teach that women just have to lay there, but this isn't making love and it has nothing to do with the woman actually experiencing pleasure. I agree that the porn industry is criminal, in many ways. And being a woman it has also bastardized and muddled my thinking. It's taken a lot of work and thought to get to know myself as a human being and not a Sexual object. That my needs are important. That what we see in porn isn't real and it teaches us nothing about actually being with someone. This is a good community, recovery and reboot is difficult but so worth it! I'm sure you'll do well and succeed with the support here. :)
 
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tay97

Active Member
I agree with crackers' comment. Just seeing the 'women' thread on the main page is triggering something in my rotten brain. We have the ability to clean ourselves from this filth.
 
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