forestwater
Member
I've noticed that I'm pretty much the only woman posting here on a regular basis. That seems strange to me, given how high the statistics are for porn use in women. Why is this forum mostly men?
My hypotheses:
*Can confirm this is a thing that happens. Before I realized my problem was PISD, all the advice I found for how to orgasm with a partner was condescending tripe like "just relax" and "love your body" as if that's gonna work on any but the mildest of cases
My hypotheses:
- Women aren't expected by society to use porn, so women who have this problem are too ashamed to admit it
- Women aren't expected by society to use porn, so women who have this problem are considered feminist and sex-positive for having "sexual agency" and thus don't even realize it's a problem
- This forum is so geared towards men (talk of erectile dysfunction, etc.) that women with this problem feel like this isn't a good space for them
- Women experiencing PISD (porn-induced sexual dysfunction) are told that it's because female sexuality is just "so complicated" and that they just need to try harder*, thus obscuring the real issue at hand
*Can confirm this is a thing that happens. Before I realized my problem was PISD, all the advice I found for how to orgasm with a partner was condescending tripe like "just relax" and "love your body" as if that's gonna work on any but the mildest of cases