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[akirahikari]

Hi fellow rebooters!

I’ve been rebooting I think for almost a year. But i kept relapsing. And before my longest streak is 20days. During that 20days, I relapsed when my libido skyrocketing aa I can’t control myself from PMO. But I still want to try to stop from PMO at least for 90days.

And today I’m on my 28days and I think I can keep it on. But I’m worried because sometimes I have high libido and sex drive, and sometimes I have very low libido and sex drive. And I think right now I’m on flatline because l’ve low libido.

Is it normal your libido goes up and down during reboot?

Please share your experience!

 

[Stiffy999]

Hi fellow rebooters!

I’ve been rebooting I think for almost a year. But i kept relapsing. And before my longest streak is 20days. During that 20days, I relapsed when my libido skyrocketing aa I can’t control myself from PMO. But I still want to try to stop from PMO at least for 90days.

And today I’m on my 28days and I think I can keep it on. But I’m worried because sometimes I have high libido and sex drive, and sometimes I have very low libido and sex drive. And I think right now I’m on flatline because l’ve low libido.

Is it normal your libido goes up and down during reboot?

Please share your experience!

It is normal,however there is the big difference between high sex drive and porn addiction.Porn gives you big dopamine shot,much bigger than any real life partner and because of that, if missused can cause PIED which is basically 0 libido in real life opportunities.From your story I can conclude that you have strong pmo addiction which not means high libido rather much more often means dead libido.Keep going with reboot, don't expect to miraculously heal at 90 days it means nothing really.I suggest you that after completing 90 days hardmode reboot,to start dating and find loving partner which is crucial if you want to recover.Wish you best of luck !

 

[Fappy]

its normal. but as the psoter above me said, sex drive and porn addiction are two different animals. you could be stinging to jerk off to porn, but have zero interest in having sexual intercourse with a person, on the other hand you could desire sex with someone but feel utterly repulsed by the idea of looking at porn.
flatlines and up and down libido are perfectly normal for someone who is rebooting, dont stress too much over it.

 

[akirahikari]

It is normal,however there is the big difference between high sex drive and porn addiction.Porn gives you big dopamine shot,much bigger than any real life partner and because of that, if missused can cause PIED which is basically 0 libido in real life opportunities.From your story I can conclude that you have strong pmo addiction which not means high libido rather much more often means dead libido.Keep going with reboot, don't expect to miraculously heal at 90 days it means nothing really.I suggest you that after completing 90 days hardmode reboot,to start dating and find loving partner which is crucial if you want to recover.Wish you best of luck !

Thanks bro for the advice. Actually I already have a partner but we are in Long Distance Relationship. So maybe difficult for me to rewire because I maybe can’t see her for 6-7 months because of the covid. Actually, there was time where I had very high libido with my girl, and we had great sex, but then I fap with porn and hit flatline. I restart and here I am on my 29days streak.

 

[akirahikari]

its normal. but as the psoter above me said, sex drive and porn addiction are two different animals. you could be stinging to jerk off to porn, but have zero interest in having sexual intercourse with a person, on the other hand you could desire sex with someone but feel utterly repulsed by the idea of looking at porn.
flatlines and up and down libido are perfectly normal for someone who is rebooting, dont stress too much over it.

Thankss. I’ll keep going strong!!

 

[akirahikari]

Day 29

I planned to workout but because of my injury, I can’t lift heavy weight. I felt like i had zero libido this day but after I called my girlfriend and heard her voice, I get erected but with 50% libido I think. Hope can reach 100% libido, 100% erection soon.

 

[Fappy]

Congrats on the one month milestone! It’s a good sign that you can get a 50% stiffy just from her voice.

 

[akirahikari]

I’m on my 53days today.

Seen a lot of improvement recently, and just finished my final exam for this semester. But my libido still going up and down.
Should I try for sex or just wait ?

 

[Pedro Delgado]

Hi fellow rebooters!

I’ve been rebooting I think for almost a year. But i kept relapsing. And before my longest streak is 20days. During that 20days, I relapsed when my libido skyrocketing aa I can’t control myself from PMO. But I still want to try to stop from PMO at least for 90days.

And today I’m on my 28days and I think I can keep it on. But I’m worried because sometimes I have high libido and sex drive, and sometimes I have very low libido and sex drive. And I think right now I’m on flatline because l’ve low libido.

Is it normal your libido goes up and down during reboot?

Please share your experience!

It's common to have some ups and downs while rebooting . What did you change to think this time you can keep it on?