Premature Ejaculation

[sulphuricacid]

Hi everyone,
I haven't had sex/masturbated in exact 105 days. I am facing severe premature Ejaculation issues, as i ejaculate just after 15 to 20 seconds after dead start (dead start mean starting from not erection at all). Right now i am using herbal medicine for PE but till now no advancement noticed at all.
I had a GF in past which i had to leave because of this PE, and everytime we plan to had to sex, she give me blowjob & after 5 sec i would ejaculate which was very very very stressful. To this day if i think about some random girl or watch some half nude models/girls on Instagram/Twitter/Facebook, i feel imidiate erection and then if i use my hand to check if timing is improved then still after 15 20 sec i feel that i will ejaculate if i did not stop. I am looking for someone who had same issues in past & overcame it or someone who is still facing PE, who can discuss or explain thing to me. Thanks a lot in advance

 

[Stiffy999]

Hi everyone,
I haven't had sex/masturbated in exact 105 days. I am facing severe premature Ejaculation issues, as i ejaculate just after 15 to 20 seconds after dead start (dead start mean starting from not erection at all). Right now i am using herbal medicine for PE but till now no advancement noticed at all.
I had a GF in past which i had to leave because of this PE, and everytime we plan to had to sex, she give me blowjob & after 5 sec i would ejaculate which was very very very stressful. To this day if i think about some random girl or watch some half nude models/girls on Instagram/Twitter/Facebook, i feel imidiate erection and then if i use my hand to check if timing is improved then still after 15 20 sec i feel that i will ejaculate if i did not stop. I am looking for someone who had same issues in past & overcame it or someone who is still facing PE, who can discuss or explain thing to me. Thanks a lot in advance

I had sort of PE,not as severe as you but I could last maybe 45-60 seconds.You need to change your mindset and completely relax during sexual activity.Try using condom and going for slow and gentle sex in the position you find the least stimulating.Also you could try karezza which is basically the same as mentioned above but without any intention to reach climax but rather enjoy the moment and connection with your SO.This helped a lot in my case and I've read it helped many other guys.Hope this will be useful to you,best of luck!

 

[sulphuricacid]

Thanks for kind response,
During blowjob, i was all relaxed, no pressure, but mindset is always in a way that i will never be able to reach normal sex time. May be it was issue, sure i will try it some other way.
Any other solution if u can suggest, i shall be really thankful.

 

[sulphuricacid]

I had sort of PE,not as severe as you but I could last maybe 45-60 seconds.You need to change your mindset and completely relax during sexual activity.Try using condom and going for slow and gentle sex in the position you find the least stimulating.Also you could try karezza which is basically the same as mentioned above but without any intention to reach climax but rather enjoy the moment and connection with your SO.This helped a lot in my case and I've read it helped many other guys.Hope this will be useful to you,best of luck!

Thanks for reply,
Karezza method will not be helpful in such short time period, i mean 15 second is very small amount to perform this as i reach climax in max 10 seconds. But surely will try mindset thing. Should i use delay spray or viagra or something else for this issue? Really Thanks for advice

 

[Stiffy999]

Thanks for kind response,
During blowjob, i was all relaxed, no pressure, but mindset is always in a way that i will never be able to reach normal sex time. May be it was issue, sure i will try it some other way.
Any other solution if u can suggest, i shall be really thankful.

You could ask her during bj to be more gentle and slower and make longer pauses.Also even if you finish too early don't worry about that,because you don't need dick to please a woman,you can make her the happiest in many other ways.Give her all your attention focus on her pleasure and remember you don't need dick to give her the best orgasm in her life.So don't look at PE as a shameful thing or anything like that because you still have many other useful body parts to use

 

[Stiffy999]

Thanks for reply,
Karezza method will not be helpful in such short time period, i mean 15 second is very small amount to perform this as i reach climax in max 10 seconds. But surely will try mindset thing. Should i use delay spray or viagra or something else for this issue? Really Thanks for advice

I don't know about delay spray nor Viagra but what I know is that like in life when you need to do some hard task you may fail once,twice, ten times or hundred times but with a lot of practice you will accomplish that task.So practice karezza it can't give any harm it can only help you.

 

[Deleted member 26201]

Hi everyone,
I haven't had sex/masturbated in exact 105 days. I am facing severe premature Ejaculation issues, as i ejaculate just after 15 to 20 seconds after dead start (dead start mean starting from not erection at all). Right now i am using herbal medicine for PE but till now no advancement noticed at all.
I had a GF in past which i had to leave because of this PE, and everytime we plan to had to sex, she give me blowjob & after 5 sec i would ejaculate which was very very very stressful. To this day if i think about some random girl or watch some half nude models/girls on Instagram/Twitter/Facebook, i feel imidiate erection and then if i use my hand to check if timing is improved then still after 15 20 sec i feel that i will ejaculate if i did not stop. I am looking for someone who had same issues in past & overcame it or someone who is still facing PE, who can discuss or explain thing to me. Thanks a lot in advance

have you tried PE sprays? decrease sensitivity in your glans to help you last longer. some guys find them very beneficial

 

[reboot_8716]

I have the same issue. I’m 42 days porn free and I had gone 28 days without any MO before I decided to have a mindful masturbation session. Within seconds, before even bring fully erect, my body was rushing to ejaculate and I had to stop touching myself to avoid it happening. even slowing down and trying to just take deep breaths within 4-5 strokes I had ejaculated.

later that night my wife and I tried to have penetrative sex which we haven’t done successfully in a very long time now. I used both cialis and a delay spray / condom and still, my brain rushed to ejaculate before I could be hard enough to enter her.

I think it’s definitely stress related because my heart was racing trying to have sex with her, I was very in my head and my body reacted to the event with stress. But even when I was solo and not stressed I had the same problem, so I genuinely believe there could be a deeper problem. Low levels of serotonin in the brain can cause PE as well, which is treated with a low dose of anti-depressants. I was on anti-depressants for a year earlier in my life and part of me now wonders if it permanently affected the level of serotonin my brain produces. Or, maybe I’m in a point of my porn recovery where it’s not being produced enough as it should.

either way you should consider seeing a urologist, that’s what I’m going to do and see what they say.