Mindset

[Lyrch42]

I’ve been porn free for nearly 90 days. Through out this process I’ve gone through severe flatline, feeling emotionless, to having morning wood and feeling great! Luckily enough I’ve had my significant other by the side through out the entire process. But I’m starting to realize that just quitting porn won’t solve everything. I’ve lately been still failing in bed, which simply destroys you a little each time. As much as I’ve focused and worked on myself my performance still falls short every time. Im doing everything I can to stay positive and look forward. Constant failure can just take a toll on you and in this situation I feel as if it’s even more difficult to build yourself back up. I’ve broke the addiction from porn completely. I have no desire, no urge, no thought to even look at porn. No I guess I just reaping what I sewed. I’ve been talking to a therapist for a month now. Im sticking with it and hoping I can get to the true root of what my minds hiding. If anyone has anything that has been beneficial to their confidence through their reboot, please feel free to share. Stay strong!

 

[Fappy]

yes the road to recovery certainly isnt linear. you went 90 days without porn, thats amazing! thats nothing to feel down about by no means. you might just need more time, as long as you feel youve beaten the porn addiction it should be just a matter of time before you get your normal sex life back.

 

[Carl_Smith]

Sometimes some temporary ED can help make you a better lover.. try watching this

Try some tantric sex, yoni massage, sensate touch -- just some ideas. Focus on your SO for a while, and maybe you'll recover when you don't expect it?