First of all, congratulations on those 13 months. Think that you are more than a year in the right direction and getting fixed is probably just around the corner.
Perhaps you'd like to start a thread in the journals section and tell us more about yourself. Your age, your relationship status, your porn habits before those 13 months, your current food and exercise habits, etc. I'm sure among us there will be someone in your exact situation and you can gather some insights from the community that way.