ChasingMyDreams
Member
Hi mate!
"One controls us, the other allows us to be in control". This is 100% what I think, to be honest, I would rather suffer than lie to myself by thinking: "I am in control". We can't both want to keep addictions and try to escape them.
I am wondering, why do you guys post here?
For me, the first reason is to remind me that I am not done yet. I still have a long way to recover from this addiction, and maybe I will never be fully recovered. Because the reward circuit wasn't made for supernormal stimulus. Writing and sharing are also a means to highlight and recognize the truth: PMO is painful and useless. Life is so much easier without it. The only moment we think the opposite is when we crave sexual content.
The second reason is that I can find good tips from long recovered bros and see what's their mindset for a sustainable recovery.
Anyway, good luck brothers on your path, never forget to stay on your guard. Our brain is made to seek P.
"One controls us, the other allows us to be in control". This is 100% what I think, to be honest, I would rather suffer than lie to myself by thinking: "I am in control". We can't both want to keep addictions and try to escape them.
I am wondering, why do you guys post here?
For me, the first reason is to remind me that I am not done yet. I still have a long way to recover from this addiction, and maybe I will never be fully recovered. Because the reward circuit wasn't made for supernormal stimulus. Writing and sharing are also a means to highlight and recognize the truth: PMO is painful and useless. Life is so much easier without it. The only moment we think the opposite is when we crave sexual content.
The second reason is that I can find good tips from long recovered bros and see what's their mindset for a sustainable recovery.
Anyway, good luck brothers on your path, never forget to stay on your guard. Our brain is made to seek P.