Danilo and others on this thread, your postings are a confirmation that I'm on the right path. I'm on my 3rd reboot and the last few days wondering how to avoid relapsing. I concluded that 2 things were essential: I must stay connected and be of service. Stay connected to my wife, my children, my brothers struggling with this issue (not to mention my higher power). And be of service to my wife, my children, and my brothers struggling with this issue. In my morning meditation it came to me that to stay connected and be of service here I would do 2 things: read and comment on one new post every day, and add an entry in my main forum thread at least once a week. So I logged in and this is the first thread I see, "How do I avoid getting to the point where I have to fight temptation," exactly the question I am trying to answer for myself! Thank you all for sharing your experience. I don't know if this is going to work, but I am committed to it today. I've learned a long time ago that simply not using porn, not staring, not having euphoric recall, not getting angry, not, not, not---was not sustainable. After saying 'no' to the false substitutes, I must say 'Yes' to the positive real connections which are satisfying and fulfilling my deepest desires. But I have to do it every day.