Thechief8271
New Member
Hey everyone,
First and foremost I wanted to ask if you all could please go easy on me and my post, this is very literally the first forum post I have ever made in my life. To find out I’m 28 years old and that’s the truth, will probably be shocking to some. But here I am now, beginning what is going to be an honest and open journaling of my fight with this thing.
So yea like I said I’m 28 years old, newly married about 4 months ago, and I struggle with an addiction to P. I have tried many times to just organically “do it less” but I don’t have to inform anyone in here how useless and unhelpful that was. I watch P daily since I was Probably about 14 yrs old or so. Over the years it’s just gotten to the point that I’m doing it at least once but usually twice and sometimes more just about every day. Since the pandemic hit and I started WFH full time, it’s gotten worse. And not just that I am doing it but also how I’m doing it. Hiding in the downstairs bathroom and shit, putting my beats in and edging under my work desk while I listen and casually watch at the same time. I mean wow, truly wow. I’m really down on myself, and my wife like kinda knows about my habits but also is like really good at shaming me and making me feel like shit so I’m struggling with the guilt and shame right now much more so than usual. The more I think about it though, the more I start to realize I feel like shit everyday and it’s because of P. it’s like all of a sudden I’ve woken up and become conscious of this almost innate behavior that I have been engaging in for so many years.
I really want to get better and stop. So today I promised myself I would stop and commit to 120 days at the minimum. Judging on stories I’ve read on here today, that’s won’t be easy. but I’ve always been the type of person to shoot for the stars and be okay with landing on the moon. My intent, however, is to start my reboot and not give up on it until I’m free of these shackles starting today. I already engaged in PMO early this morning, but have not since. Tomorrow will be day one, so here goes nothin.
Also, guys, thanks for sharing your stories and supporting each other on here. Even just reading your journals and replies has already given me so much motivation and hope.
First and foremost I wanted to ask if you all could please go easy on me and my post, this is very literally the first forum post I have ever made in my life. To find out I’m 28 years old and that’s the truth, will probably be shocking to some. But here I am now, beginning what is going to be an honest and open journaling of my fight with this thing.
So yea like I said I’m 28 years old, newly married about 4 months ago, and I struggle with an addiction to P. I have tried many times to just organically “do it less” but I don’t have to inform anyone in here how useless and unhelpful that was. I watch P daily since I was Probably about 14 yrs old or so. Over the years it’s just gotten to the point that I’m doing it at least once but usually twice and sometimes more just about every day. Since the pandemic hit and I started WFH full time, it’s gotten worse. And not just that I am doing it but also how I’m doing it. Hiding in the downstairs bathroom and shit, putting my beats in and edging under my work desk while I listen and casually watch at the same time. I mean wow, truly wow. I’m really down on myself, and my wife like kinda knows about my habits but also is like really good at shaming me and making me feel like shit so I’m struggling with the guilt and shame right now much more so than usual. The more I think about it though, the more I start to realize I feel like shit everyday and it’s because of P. it’s like all of a sudden I’ve woken up and become conscious of this almost innate behavior that I have been engaging in for so many years.
I really want to get better and stop. So today I promised myself I would stop and commit to 120 days at the minimum. Judging on stories I’ve read on here today, that’s won’t be easy. but I’ve always been the type of person to shoot for the stars and be okay with landing on the moon. My intent, however, is to start my reboot and not give up on it until I’m free of these shackles starting today. I already engaged in PMO early this morning, but have not since. Tomorrow will be day one, so here goes nothin.
Also, guys, thanks for sharing your stories and supporting each other on here. Even just reading your journals and replies has already given me so much motivation and hope.
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