Finally, I'm doing this…

GBS

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I genuinely don’t know how you’re coping with 98 days of no ejaculation. I know I got to 90, but I told myself I would stop because it was starting to run my life. Honestly, what’s your one best tip? Please.
 

Ezel

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thanks @GBS , yes It's true i don't masturbate anymore but I still get wet dreams to release those sperms, although it's been awhile since I had my last wet dream (1month) , and it worries me a bit.
Except this i'm doin just fine, i don't even have the slightest urge to masturbate, maybe it's because I fasted today IDK. fasting is a great way to get your sexual energy under control, at least it works for me, it's my second month where every week i fast two days (Monday and Thursday). If you are up for it, it provides great results, not only physically but mentally and spirituality.
If fasting is not your thing then my second tip is to lower your gaze when it comes to women except your wife of course, you know what they say, out of sight out of mind,and if you ever had a sexual feeling towards a woman, go and make love to your wife after that I guess the feeling will go away. I know this sounds too idealistic especially hearing it coming from a 24yo virgin guy 😂😂.
I don't know what is going on in your life, but why do you want to masturbate and every night, there is a gorgeous wife sleeping with you, i know the way women and men view sex is totally different, not like how they show it in porn where everything is fake and women are payed to do whatever the industry wants them to do.
Again this is just my opinion, you do what is best in your case, the important thing in all this is just to keep yourself away from porn, and you will even be good at it while having consistent sex with your partner.
I think doing that will fast rewire your brain towards a real woman instead of pixels on a screen...
Finally, I'm going monk mode not only because I want to but also because it's the only choice i have right now and one of the fastest way to reboot although it can get challenging sometimes(no pain no gain), do you think if i had a wife you will find me here, man i wouldn't even think about it twice( you know what I mean).
Again you do you ma mann, you know what is best for you more than anyone else...
Bless you and your efforts to the community.
Stay hard and keep pushing.
 

Blondie

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@Ezel, you're killing it brother! Thanks for being you and being such a rock to this community.

I hope you have a great day! 👍 👍
 

Ezel

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Thanks Blondie for your continued support, keep doing your thing partner, have a good one champiiion🤠💪😎.
 
these type of threads are inspirational and almost make me glad to have struggled with porn addiction and PIED. As weird as it is to say, in my privileged modern life this is definitely one of the hardest things I've ever done and I'm sure many of you guys can say the same.

By exerting this much effort, discipline, and self control towards the goal of a healthier self we are training our brains in a way that can be applied to other areas. Think about what dudes like @Ezel are going to be able to get done in their lives with a few years of this kind of commitment towards other goals, big shit.

Here's to throwing away the easy, cheap highs of modern convince whether it's screens, junk food, whatever, and becoming the kind of men we can be proud of
 

Ezel

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these type of threads are inspirational and almost make me glad to have struggled with porn addiction and PIED. As weird as it is to say, in my privileged modern life this is definitely one of the hardest things I've ever done and I'm sure many of you guys can say the same.

By exerting this much effort, discipline, and self control towards the goal of a healthier self we are training our brains in a way that can be applied to other areas. Think about what dudes like @Ezel are going to be able to get done in their lives with a few years of this kind of commitment towards other goals, big shit.

Here's to throwing away the easy, cheap highs of modern convince whether it's screens, junk food, whatever, and becoming the kind of men we can be proud of
Thanks man, you just made my day brother, your support means a lot. one day we all gonna make it, we just have to keep pushing. If you're going through hell, keep going...
Thanks again, stay hard.
 
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Ezel

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Day 105, no po, no mo (monk mode).

After over a month of waiting. finally, I had a wet dream this early morning, i didn’t know i had one till i woke up, usually, when I get one it will be so intense that it wakes me up in the middle of the night, but this one i had wasn’t like that, probably because i was sick yesterday and very tired, and I’m still are as I'm writing this, i woke up with a terrible headache i didn’t even go to college today.

Yesterday when i caught a cold, was one of the most challenging days in this 100 +days of monk mode. Urges about a plus-size thick curvy model started popping up inside my head. I’m not going to lie i even checked her social media account, you gotta understand i’m not proud of doing this or writing it down here, but this is my journey and i want it to be as authentic as possible, they will always be ups and downs, it’s not a linear process like everyone wishes it to be, i thought about not writing this mistake but that will make me a hypocrite, not only to you guys but also to me, and i don’t want to be one.

This happened to me before, my brain would always play tricks on me while i was sick, cuz i would feel terrible, tired, and stressed so it was the perfect opportunity to make me relapse and it worked like a charm, lucky me yesterday as i was scrolling through her posts for a while, i snapped out of it, i knew if i kept going like this, i will end up relapsing, thank god that didn’t happen, even though I had all the symptoms a guy would experience before a relapse (heavy breathing, my heart pounding like crazy, goosebumps, I was shaking). Man, it was captivating.

i Got out before it was too late, or else I would be binge-watching porn right now instead of writing this. I'm so grateful. I think the wet dream I had this morning has something to do with what happened yesterday. All those urges and the momentum that kept building up got released through that wet dream, right at the moment when I needed it the most, the perfect timing at its finest.

I know it’s not over, as a matter of fact, what I saw yesterday, will likely come back to bite me in the azz, sooner or later. God help me.

I knew this could happen, it always does, abstaining from porn and masturbation for over 100 days in a row is not easy and not impossible either, it depends on your plan and your approach when it comes to what triggers you the most, that’s why i choose the monk mode approach, where i eliminate every trigger that could set me up for failure. I know what i did yesterday wasn’t monk mode at all, i was supposed to not watch any artificial stimulation of any kind, yeah i messed up really bad, but the important thing to keep in mind is I’m still here, i didn’t go back to that filth. But i gotta be careful next time, and keep my guard up.

If you think that by completing the 90 days challenge of no PMO, you got healed then i will tell you that’s not how it works, been there done that. all the relapses i had in the past were after 90 days, i hope no one will get discouraged by this, you should be proud of yourself that you made it past three months. however, don’t get cocky and assume that you crossed the river and your feet are dry, if you looked at it that way probably you are still in the middle of the river and you still didn’t make it to the other side. All I’m saying is you have to be alert that’s all there is to it…

Man, i hate this addiction, it’s sneaky AF. i hope this will never happen again, and the key for me to not let it happen is to keep myself busy, that’s why i almost messed up yesterday, cuz i was just laying down and not doing anything, and then my brain made its move on me, thank goodness it didn’t turn ugly.

keep pushing guys, and stay hard.

Peace.

Ezel.
 

GBS

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Love if @Ezel . An example to us all. You didn’t fall off the bike, you just did something you shouldn’t have. Best of all, you sdmitted it.your monk mode streak goes on. I have had plenty of sex dreams but not sue if I have ever had a wet dream in my life. I guess I am envious. It allows you an outlet for your frustration I suppose. I was wondering how you coped with no ejaculation for 100 days.

Keep going. You inspire me so much.
 

Ezel

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Day 106, no po, no mo (monk mode).

Another wet dream this morning, two in a row. I guess what I saw two days ago has something to do with it, maybe 🤔 idk. Or it's just that when the tank is full, it's time for the release. Anyway i hope i will keep pushing forward and not let what happened affect me negativity and instead learn from that mistake.
I was playing with fire, fortunately I didn't get burned.
@GBS @Beautiful1973 Thank You guys for your support, your encouragement means a lot, God bless you all.
 
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